I am doing one because I wanted to make him feel more 'part of the day' as it were ... everywhere we went all the attention was on me and me likes... everyone always ignored Chris so I purposely through in special stuff for him because I hate it when you hear it YOUR day... to me it is OUR day...
It is NOT cheesy not to do a cake for him... You'll have wedding cake... plus think of the savings you will have not doing a 2 nd cake!! I probably wouldn't of done one if I had not seen FH's feelings hurt everytime we went to an appointment and all attention and questions was directed at me.
Autumn08
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No one has ever really heard of a grooms cake that I've spoken to, from what I know it's a southern tradition that is starting to become popular here.
ZeppsGirl
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Posted by JodyLC
NO!!!
I am doing one because I wanted to make him feel more 'part of the day' as it were ... everywhere we went all the attention was on me and me likes... everyone always ignored Chris so I purposely through in special stuff for him because I hate it when you hear it YOUR day... to me it is OUR day...
It is NOT cheesy not to do a cake for him... You'll have wedding cake... plus think of the savings you will have not doing a 2 nd cake!! I probably wouldn't of done one if I had not seen FH's feelings hurt everytime we went to an appointment and all attention and questions was directed at me.
My FH is handling the church so the church lady keeps calling my cell phone. he gets a hold of her FINALLY yesterday and she says 'I normally deal with the Bride' why does the bride have to do all the work?????? Gosh, I am just so happy that he is helping and them he goes and gets shot down by this woman. Anyway he still isnt getting a cake, I dont like dessert and he is getting Viennes Hours so thats his treat!!!!
JodyLC
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Posted by ZeppsGirl
Posted by JodyLC
NO!!!
I am doing one because I wanted to make him feel more 'part of the day' as it were ... everywhere we went all the attention was on me and me likes... everyone always ignored Chris so I purposely through in special stuff for him because I hate it when you hear it YOUR day... to me it is OUR day...
It is NOT cheesy not to do a cake for him... You'll have wedding cake... plus think of the savings you will have not doing a 2 nd cake!! I probably wouldn't of done one if I had not seen FH's feelings hurt everytime we went to an appointment and all attention and questions was directed at me.
My FH is handling the church so the church lady keeps calling my cell phone. he gets a hold of her FINALLY yesterday and she says 'I normally deal with the Bride' why does the bride have to do all the work?????? Gosh, I am just so happy that he is helping and them he goes and gets shot down by this woman. Anyway he still isnt getting a cake, I dont like dessert and he is getting Viennes Hours so thats his treat!!!!
Mine isn't getting viennes hour so the cake is his treat! Double Chocolate in the shape of a XBOX 360 and (he doesn't know a new game for the topper).