grrr

crazeee18 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 08:20 AM

grrr

ok ladies so me and fh had said that we were gonna go to the ticker tape parade and then when i asked him last nite he said he cant go cuz of school ....so i said fine cuz now its gonna be too late to ask for off tomorrow ...he just called me and said that him and a bunch of guys r going to the parade and that he doesnt want me going because its all guys ...is that shady???? his teacher actually gave him the option to take off today so i understand that he didnt know until last minute but to turn around and not invite me and to say that he doesnt want me there...i think he went too far!!....i snuck on my comp because im soooo mad and needed to vent and get some other advice...thanks ladies

kabo0831 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 08:26 AM

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that would get me mad too. Also i think that it is shady as well. Do you think his guy frds would let him do anything stupid?

Im sorry cheer up, im sure he will be ok.

crazeee18 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 08:44 AM

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yea the fight got pretty bad....alot of hangups and mean words.....finally just somewhat reseloved it...

flairforfashion Posted: Feb 05, 2008 09:08 AM

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Eh, guys do this stuff. Not my FH but I know a lot of my guy friends want time with their buddies. At least you resolved it for now.

crazeee18 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 09:14 AM

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im still not satisfied with how it turned out....i want him to have time with his guy friends but dont lie to me about it...dont say that ur not gonna go and then turn around and say well now im gonna go now that u cant take off at this point im gonna go....grrrr i hate men

cammolax23 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 09:49 AM

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FH does the same thing to me... I am not allowed in the city on st. paddys day--- or in long beach for the FDNY volley ball tourney-- hes like there is 1500 drug fireman down here WHY would you want to go down here?' (i was like cause there is 1500 drunk firemen down there... duh!)

I know its annoying that you are not going with him, can you give him the benefit of the doubt and think that his friends pressured him intio boys day out?

ddnsp618 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 09:51 AM

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im mad for you!!! haha that is rude of him, but i guess he just wanted it to be guys. i think you should tell him that you are mad and see why he didnt invite you, its not like you would have brought your wedding binder and went through planning

aliska21 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 09:52 AM

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thats not nice....i mean comon.....i would get really mad!!!!!!!

crazeee18 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 10:25 AM

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ok so heres whats really urking me....a) i dont know who he went with..have never met ne of them and b) one of them is a compulsive cheater.....i hope it pours on their parade lol literally ....i dont think his friends pressured him into having a 'boys day'

crazeee18 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 10:36 AM

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so his phone accidently just called me and i heard skanks in their conversations

cammolax23 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 10:48 AM

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ok... they could just be standing next to a bunch of chicken heads... there are a lot of people at the parade right now... and if you trust him in the end it will be ok...

I say we bolt out of work together and hit the parade... pull a little skankspank action!!!

crazeee18 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 10:51 AM

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thanks ...im soooo pissed right now .....im happy his phone makes random calls ..lol

ddnsp618 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 10:52 AM

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looove cammolax's answer...they are standing by chicken heads!!

dont worry about it, your FH isnt going to cheat just bc one of his friends is a cheater...he knows what hes got at home!

crazeee18 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 10:53 AM

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yea a nerotic fb

ddnsp618 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 10:53 AM

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haha and a really mad one at that!!

KristiAnn923 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 10:55 AM

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You have the right to be mad! I would be annoyed too, but I am sure he is not or would not do anything behind your back.

I can sneak out of my office and go spy on him if you want. I work 3 min from the parade route

AHimar24 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 10:56 AM

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Oh no don't let this get to you. I know it *****, but boys will be boys. My FH is working down there, do you want me to have him be on the look out

crazeee18 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 10:56 AM

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thanks ladies...no need...i do trust him its just that he has been sooo shady all morning and things keep working against him ...like the call with the girls voices in their conversations...the compulsive cheater lol...sorry im just pms' ing ..thanks for listening

FutureMrsLV Posted: Feb 05, 2008 10:56 AM

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I would be very pissed also! You have more then enough reason too be... Why couldnt he tell you from the first place he wanted to with his friends..that would have made everything alot easier and less shady I guess boys will be boys ( not that thats an excuse).. In a way your like well I dont want to get mad at you for wanting to spend time with your friends...but Im going to be your wife why lie to me about it? I totally know how you feel. Let him get it out of his system and now that he has a guys night maybe its time for you to have a girls night....and please girls nights are much more fun then the guys can ever imagine having

crazeee18 Posted: Feb 05, 2008 10:58 AM

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i know ...i was actually gonna call up some of my girl friends and get a nite going....2 can play at this game...im not gonna tell him of my plans until he calls me and im out hahahah