On friday one of my BM kept asking me for the swatch of the dress so she can get her shoes dyed...(she didn't even have the shoes yet) SO I told her I haven't had a chance to pick it up and I will go this weekend. SO I get a call from her friday night that she went behind my back to macys and asked them for my swatch. I was very upset about that because I wanted to go get it....It is my wedidng right?? So she also tells me that she asked about the dresses and the girl told ehr they were in already. So I called back macy's and asked them and they claimed that they came in last week and they were going to call me that night. Mind you it was already 8:30. So we went on saturday to see the dresses. they came out great!!! they were a little big. But that is ok. So I was happy about that. But do you think I was being bridezilla about the swatch. I was so upset that she went behing my back to go get it that I was almos tin tears. My mom said I was over reatcing but come on. I tell you I was going to pick it up and then I get a call and you have it and everything. I thought it was messed up and so did a few of my other BM's.
I would be relieved to find my BM or anyone for that matter was stepping up and taking control of a situation.
I personally think she was trying to help you out and its a good thing she is on top of her game she wanted to have her shoes and everything ready which should take some of the stress off of your back
IMHO, I don't think it was a big deal and I wouldn't get upset about it. I don't think your BM meant anything by it. She probably thought she was helping you out by picking up the swatch.. one less thing for you to do during this hectic time. Either that or she just thought it wasn't a big deal.
