I wouldn't continue the lie and say you just bumped into this girl again. If they do reconcile you would hate for them to get mad at you for lying. I would invite them, separate their seating and hope they are adult enough to keep their differences to themselves on your wedding day. If either are truly your friend, they would,
L&R
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I would invite both and definitely separate the seating. I have similar prob - FH is friends with an engaged couple who are no longer engaged and neither one cares for the other, but we're inviting both and they'll just have to deal. We're telling each that the other is invited and if they don't want to come to the wedding, then it's on them. That being said, they're going to be at opposite sides of Giorgios!
menc
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Wow, these things are always hard. My opinion tell Jen that you do still keep in touch w/Lisa and that you are planning to invite her to the wedding. Just be honest. Tell her you don't mention her ever because you know that she wouldn't want to hear about it. Let them both know that this is your day and you want them there for you and whatever happened a few yrs ago needs to be forgotten for that night. If anyone of them have a fit about it, they are being selfish and immature. I can't stand when two friends are fighting and they expect you to take sides. It is not right.
So, just be honest and seperate them. Good luck
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You have to tell them, because you don't want drama on your day. Hopefully they will be adults about it. Don't make a huge deal about it, just say 'there's something I have to talk to you about' and then say 'I know I can trust you to have a great time at the wedding.' If they're really good friends of yours, they won't do anything to jeopardize your happiness on your wedding day. Besides, you're probably going to be so happy, and so busy, you won't have an idea what's going on with them the whole day.
