Guilt about where to order dress....

beautyq115 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:07 PM

Guilt about where to order dress....

Ok I may have found a dress...well its between 2 that are very expensive. I have been back to the same place 2x..the girl is so sweet and I would hate to not give her the commision BUT I know that I could probably order it somewhere else for less!

My mother says not to worry about it...but I feel so guilty!

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:11 PM

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Maybe you could tell the place that you like that you found it for less elsewhere and they will give you a discount.

gNi1125 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:12 PM

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OMG...don't let that make you pay more for it. If it's the difference of like $20 bucks okay...but not if the diff. is in the hundreds. You can give her a tip or a 'thank you for your help' card. They might even be willing to match the price.

beautyq115 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:18 PM

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I don't know what to do!! I feel sooo bad! It would be a huge difference!!

Burtons told me they could discount like 15-20%. At Macy's I get like 10% off since I am on the registry.

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:20 PM

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If its a huge difference, then I wouldn't pay more, don't feel bad. You really should ask if they will match the price!

Jen2999 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:20 PM

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so I guess i should feel really guilty for going there for a fake appointment when my dress is ordered LOL

beautyq115 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:20 PM

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I know!

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:22 PM

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Posted by Jen2999

so I guess i should feel really guilty for going there for a fake appointment when my dress is ordered LOL

What do you mean?

gNi1125 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:25 PM

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Posted by Jen2999

so I guess i should feel really guilty for going there for a fake appointment when my dress is ordered LOL

lol Jen

gNi1125 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:27 PM

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Posted by beautyq115

I don't know what to do!! I feel sooo bad! It would be a huge difference!!

Burtons told me they could discount like 15-20%. At Macy's I get like 10% off since I am on the registry.

Personally, if the don't match the price I wouldn't buy it from Macy's. Maybe it would help if you talk to the manager.

Ohhh, also another way to show the salesgirl your appreciation is to talk to her supervisor and put in a good word.

beautyq115 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:33 PM

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Thats a good idea!

sarahthegreat Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:33 PM

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don't feel bad. its your $$ you choose where to order the dress.like the other girls said, ask if they will either match the price or at least see if they will offer you a discount

Jen2999 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:34 PM

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Posted by LaurenluvsTJ

Posted by Jen2999

so I guess i should feel really guilty for going there for a fake appointment when my dress is ordered LOL

What do you mean?

I ordered my dress already elsewhere and I made an appointment tomorrow to show my cousin the dress at macys.

beautyq115 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:38 PM

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I asked if there was a limit to how many times I could see the dress and she said no limit

cjb88 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:22 PM

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definately dont feel bad!!!

im glad you had a good experience with Macys... i went to the one in Smithaven mall today... they lady was SOOOO nasty, rude and mean! i couldnt wait to get out of there!

Jen2999 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:29 PM

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Posted by cjb88

definately dont feel bad!!!

im glad you had a good experience with Macys... i went to the one in Smithaven mall today... they lady was SOOOO nasty, rude and mean! i couldnt wait to get out of there!

really? I stopped in there a month or two ago and they were SOOO nice,

I have an appointment tomorrow, hope it is the same lady.

cjb88 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:38 PM

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yeah... i walked out so upset... the woman was putty down maggie dresses the entire time, saying they were very low end, and how a lot of her dresses have lace-up backs and she just cant stand them, adn dont understand how brides deal with them the day of...and that they dont display them and they keep them in the back and that i shouldnt have gone there for maggie dresses... they are a demetrios salon... then she got mad at me because i didnt want her in the dresses room with me when i was not dressed!!

Jen2999 Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:40 PM

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OMG the lady I had said that she wished they werent just demetrios based and that maggies were sooo beautiful and more brides order hers than demetrios