Had a mini breakdown

so i had a mini breakdown last night. i started to think about how i really need to order my invites like ASAP and how we have to book the florist and how we need to book the honeymoon and to top it off how we need to really find a place to live.... not to mention i am trying to come up with things to make our wedding unique... so i started talking to FH trying to come up with ideas and he started laughing at me and then the waterworks started coming out.... thankfully FH was able to calm me down b/4 it got into full blown hysteria.

It happens to all of us. Letely I've been a ball of different emotions....FH has had to deal with b*tchiness and waterworks every once in a while.

take one thing at a time, dont try and do everything at once. You have plenty of time. Try to relax and you will get everything done!

Hey i have 29 days left and we have no place to live

Men dont understand that we want this day perfect and we want the littlest things to be exactly how we dreamed. Im sure he didnt mean to make you cry, he just doesnt get how important this is to us.

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Posted by FinallyEngaged

so i had a mini breakdown last night. i started to think about how i really need to order my invites like ASAP and how we have to book the florist and how we need to book the honeymoon and to top it off how we need to really find a place to live.... not to mention i am trying to come up with things to make our wedding unique... so i started talking to FH trying to come up with ideas and he started laughing at me and then the waterworks started coming out.... thankfully FH was able to calm me down b/4 it got into full blown hysteria.

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don't feel bad. I haven't had a the breakdown BUT I have all the same stuff left to do that you do so I understand the panicy feeling. take a deep breath and just know that it will all get done.

My FH would have laughed at me, too. Doesn't mean they don't care, they just don't realize the little things are important to us.

When we lived in Massapequa, FH called me 'Massapequa Waterworks.'
Whenever I started, he would say, 'Massapque Waterworks, Jenny speaking, how can I help you??' Made me laugh and still does, took the edge off the crying. We all cry!!!

I think we all feel like that from time to time- planning a wedding is very stressful sometimes! Make a short to do list- like 2-3 things to get done this week and work on that- dont look at all the things you have left, just take it peice by peice- its a lot more manageable that way

Ohhh that stinks!!
I am sorry,, i think that everyone goes throught that at some point.

Don't stress yourself too much! Make a list of the things that need to be done right away like ordering invites, booking a florist and finding a place to live. All the other little details can be done later.

I know this is very stressful I am 38 days and 3 hours away from our big day and we haven't closed yet...so we have been patiently waiting...which means once we close we still have to paint...I had to reschedule our furniture delivery date...bring all our stuff in..etc.!

Take it easy...you still have 5 months...just get the things big things done 1st.

Good luck!

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Posted by FinallyEngaged

so i had a mini breakdown last night. i started to think about how i really need to order my invites like ASAP and how we have to book the florist and how we need to book the honeymoon and to top it off how we need to really find a place to live.... not to mention i am trying to come up with things to make our wedding unique... so i started talking to FH trying to come up with ideas and he started laughing at me and then the waterworks started coming out.... thankfully FH was able to calm me down b/4 it got into full blown hysteria.

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I know we all strive to have the most unique/different wedding, but please don't lose sight of why you are getting married. I think we all (myself included) get wrapped up in things that, at the end of the day, don't really matter. If the flowers are wrong, the wedding will still be amazing, if the DJ plays a song you hate, the wedding will still be fabulous. What will make your day special is that both you and your FH show up and you marry one another.

Take a deep breath, it'll all be ok.

for you.

The wedding process is super emotional for me too and I have noticed other brides get the same way . it is totally normal , and overwhelming at times, so just take a deep breath and try to not get caught up in the stress of it all.

The best way to tackle this is to make a list of everything you need to do and you DO still have time with invites , you have 5 months but I would start looking at least.