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Had my fitting .upset

Christys0925 Posted:

Had my fitting .upset

I was so happy the dress looked after loosing 2 inches in my waist. The dress is beautiful. My issue is the dress sits lower in the back than I thought and my underarm back fat litterally hangs over the top in the back. There is nothing I can do with 3 weeks left. I mean it was huge and NASTY!! I was so happy when I sawe the from until I turned around in the mirror. Sorry to vent just so upset

iwannabmrsD Posted:

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aww.. i'm sure it's not as bad as u feel it is.. but if u want a way to rfeel bettr, maybe buy a cathedral veil.. that will go the entire length of u'r dress and cover those areas that are troubling you..

Tobewed07 Posted:

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Congratulations on losing 2 inches, that is great! I'm sure that you look gorgeous!! We tend to be very critical on ourselves and see things that others would never notice....

Can you get a longer veil? It may cover your back and make you feel a little better??
PreshusSmurf Posted:

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Maybe have cups sewn in instead of wearing a bra???

Renee615 Posted:

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I noticed that I had back bulges when I went for my second fitting. I tried on a longline bra that wasn't as tight as the original one I had and it looked a lot better. Good luck
Michi9506 Posted:

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U might be too hard on urself..im that way too because i didnt lose as much as i want

PattyK Posted:

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Christy....first of all congrats on losing the 2 inches (I wish that I could say the same), secondly try not to be so hard on yourself. We all tend to be our own worst critics. I agree with the above post and maybe see if you can get a longer veil. Remember you are going to be a beautiful bride and your FH is going to smile the minute that he sees you walking down the isle!

Mich0621 Posted:

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Christy,

You should be so proud of yourself for losing 2 inches! You are doing great and you will be beautiful! Don't sweat it! Can you wear your hair down or like the others suggested, a longer veil! Can they take it out more up top? Seriously though, you should try not to be too hard on yourself, because you are doing such a fabulous job and remember, sometimes we see things that no one else will notice, or we see things that do not really exist! Try to feel better!
Jennifer907 Posted:

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Wait, Christy, we are dress twins, aren't we? The dress has a corset back. Maybe she can just loosen up the corset a little. She may not be fitting it correctly, because I just looked at my fitting pics and it doesn't seem to come down low in the back. Are you using the privacy panel?

LuckiestGirl Posted:

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im sure its all in your head, you notice it but no one else will. . . and im sure you look amazing. . . sorry you feel like that but im sure you look great. My boss told me when i was upset about my dress that all that matters is what the FH thinks about how i look and the same goes for you worry about him and you and no one else.

Christys0925 Posted:

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Posted by Jennifer907

Wait, Christy, we are dress twins, aren't we? The dress has a corset back. Maybe she can just loosen up the corset a little. She may not be fitting it correctly, because I just looked at my fitting pics and it doesn't seem to come down low in the back. Are you using the privacy panel?



I think it sits lower on me because of my height. Thats what she said I am 5'8. I am using the privacy panel. She said if she loosend it up top it would not stay on. It sits about 2 to 3 inches below my underarm.

PS. Thank you all for your sweet words.
MF9282 Posted:

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I'm sure you look stunning!
We are always over critical of ourselves.
XFINALLYX Posted:

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how are you having your hair style?? i kinda have the same issue but im doing my hair either half up or all the way down. it'll cover it a little as long as you have longish hair

Christys0925 Posted:

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Posted by XFINALLYX

how are you having your hair style?? i kinda have the same issue but im doing my hair either half up or all the way down. it'll cover it a little as long as you have longish hair



Kind of like this, but my hair is not AS long as this.

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