i can't stand my FH ex, she is such a b****, and causes so many problems!! but, he lets it!! background, he has daughter w/ her and we've been together 3 yrs this monday and she still doesnt want t accept me!! it's crazy!! whatever, i am really upset!!
jgl
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im sorry that you are going through this.. im sure youd wish that everything was fine and everyone got along but unfortunetly its not always that way.
i dont know the whole story but.. try to see it from her perspective, i know you have a child of your own. it must be hard for her to accept that another woman is going to be like a mother to her daughter
lovebear7800
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sorry your going through this.huggy:
wundmoretime
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I can relate to the he** you are in. My FH and I deal with it daily. I have 2 kids from a prior marriage and my ex has done everything to make us break up. He is mentally abusing my children. My son won't visit with me if my FH is around and isn't coming to the wedding. He wants me to choose between him or FH. He doesn't really know him, just what the ex tells him, who really doesn't know him either. We are back in court. The ex filed a petition to keep my other child from being around FH, since she likes him. Funny part is that my ex was removed for domestic violence and has many anger and control issues. Don''t blame FH so much and certainly don't let the child see the situation (if possible). Now matter how much I wish my ex will move on and leave me alone, I know it is not going to happen. It is not something I can not control nor is it something your FH can either. Sometimes you need to eat cr** for the child's sake.Sorry you are going through this too.
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That's so difficult... The ex isn't going anywhere, you just have to find a way to deal with her. Either limit your contact or just behave the opposite of how you feel- make her cookies or something. Be so nice that she will just HAVE to like you! and that way FH cant blame you if she makes problems, if your behaviour is all Stepford Wife'y.
CNC4eva3402
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I am so sorry you are dealing with this. It's a tough situation!! I hope things work out for you! Feel free to vent!
mRm2008
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So sorry you are going through this. I hope the situation gets better for you
MrsK2008
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chances are she never will accept you, even if she finds her own partner.
It's your FH issue and even though you have to deal with it, he has to handle it.
good luck!
mjay
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Really sorry you have to deal with this but unfortunately when they are other ppl involved sad to say ppl dont always make it easy. Honestly you have to find a way to deal with it especially since you guys are getting married. She on the other hand needs to grow up but too bad you have no control over that. Sad to say but alot of baby-mama's do this kind of thing. I dont see the piont of aggrevating yourself and others for no reason at all. Cheer up
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Posted by MrsK2008
chances are she never will accept you, even if she finds her own partner.
It's your FH issue and even though you have to deal with it, he has to handle it.
