Have you ever....

Are you overreacting at all.. eh, a little.
BUT I would have acted the same way so I can't fault you.

It's one of those things where they are just being themselves (esp the card w/the movie quote.. I've DEF been there).

The flower thing would have DEF gotten to me ESP if he sent his single female friend the roses that I wanted. (I can't say much about sending them to his mom cuz it's his mom lol). Attribute it towards a lack in judgement.

I think You are 100% right to feel they way you do. Im sure if the tables were turned he would be pissed as well.

Im in a very similar situation right now.

If its thought that counts then dont think of me at all! FH gave me a very though-less gift this year. (He gave me a CD with the price tag still on, he basically flug it at me. I know the CD was more for him than me bcuz I dont like the artist)

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Posted by kshea23

i got a card from my FH that I just was like ***!!!

It's a card with homer simpson and marge on it

' When you've been in a relationship as long as we have, you reach a certain level of comfort....'

I open the card and it's homer peeking out from the corner of the bathroom singing

' I'm whizzing with the door open, and I love it!!!!!!!'

I can't help but laugh bc he does this ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL the time.










But yea, I'd be PO'ed too. Why is he sending his BF roses? Not OK in my book.

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lmao thats hilarious

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Posted by latinaj

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Posted by DWKSwed

Is this the same female friend who stays over late and made that comment about how she would want to be with him if you weren't? I would be bothered by the fact that she got the
flowers I wanted. That's a little ridiculous,
I mean it shows he's thoughtful to send to her but then yeah
he should be more thoughtful with your gift.
I understand where you're coming from.

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YES! HER! I know he's just completely clueless and just trying to be nice, but COME ON!!!!

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sorry hun but i would be FURIOUS too...
FH's are a little clueless w/gifts.. i get it..

but i will def fight about him getting roses for his mom & friend...maybe not mom so much (that just shows ur fh is a great son and u should be proud of that) but the friend...ahhhhhh will drive me nuts!

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At first I thought you might have overreated a little, but when I read further about this friend, you had every right to get upset. I am guessing FH knows how you feel about his friend, and to send her flowers, YOUR fav flowers nonetheless on Valentines Day is beyond me. I would be furious.

Sorry honey your V-day started off so rough.