one of those moments where you stop and say 'how the heck are we paying for this wedding'?!?!?!? I am having this moment right now I want all of my vendors booked before 2009 so that I know exactly how much I owe, but I can't do that if I cant't afford deposits. And if I can't afford deposits than how in the world can we afford this wedding
Thank you vent over. Anyone want to take over our house payment so I can pay for this wedding
baba022
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All the time!! I know we are going to be able to do it but still...I feel we can use the money for so many other things!!
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If it makes you feel better I have one of those moments every 20 minutes!! We have a mortgage payment too so money is super tight right now. At least you are pacing yourself. I picked all my vendors immediately and spent all my money i had on deposits.. I should have waited!
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I have that feeling often. I often feel like I cant breathe because of all the anxiety
But at at least you have a house to make a payment on...FH and I are renting
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Posted by kmiller
I have that feeling often. I often feel like I cant breathe because of all the anxiety
But at at least you have a house to make a payment on...FH and I are renting
TA... and at least the OP have one year to go... I am in 6 month mark and feeling the anxiety
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Ohhh that *****. .. just visualize money rolling in!! Maybe we should all chip in a dollar and we can win/split the megamillions and at least make enough to pay for ALL of our weddings!
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FH and I had that moment a few months ago when we put together a list of how much we are spending. Thankfully my parents just lent us a large sum of money to put towards the RH so that was a huge weight off of our shoulder. Fortunately the only deposit we have left is the DJ-which I am assuming will be a few $100.
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I feel your pain .... we have a mortgage and all the other bills to go along with the house... plus 4 kids ......... so I know it is not easy !!!!!!!!!!!
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OMG YES! I had a complete and total melt down yesterday! It was horrible!! FH keeps reassuring me that everything will work out, but I have soo many payments to make that it just freaks me out! And, still need to keep up with all my real life payments1 LOL. That's going to be a HUGE relief once everything is DONE!
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Oh, I could go on and on about this. I have less than 6 months and am having those moments too often. I do not have a permanent teaching job, and feel very lucky that I have a job until January, but after that, who knows? It makes life very difficult. I have an old car that I just found out needs a LOT of work (again) and I was ready to go buy a new one, but with the wedding coming up so soon, it is not feasible.
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i have that moment almost every day.
azailia
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the rh freaks me out the most... and that you dont know the exact amount till.. what like a month b4?!!!!!
i want to try to start paying pff some vendors now if i can.. i am hoping to do 1 a month.
see how it goes...
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i think about this all the time !!!
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We haven't made one payment out of our own pocket yet...but I'm really worried that its going to be all at once. Especially hearing that flowers go for about 4k We really need a vomiting uncontrollably emoticon.
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all the time we should allplay mega millions and pool the winnigs for our wedding
MrsInglima
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This is definitely me right now too. Except we're 3 months away and we have to make sure we have about 6K by Christmas.
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And I was just so bad! We met with a DJ tonight and I fell in love with him so we booked him and also booked a photobooth! We have to come up with so much money and I just keep spending!!
(if I dont laugh I will cry )
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I have these moments pretty frequently...FH is constantly telling me not to worry so much but I can not help it!
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Posted by FutureMrsMacci
one of those moments where you stop and say 'how the heck are we paying for this wedding'?!?!?!? I am having this moment right now I want all of my vendors booked before 2009 so that I know exactly how much I owe, but I can't do that if I cant't afford deposits. And if I can't afford deposits than how in the world can we afford this wedding
Thank you vent over. Anyone want to take over our house payment so I can pay for this wedding
OMG this is my EXACT frame of mind right now! I feel your pain!
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I experience that feeling - every weekend we see another vendor for another iteam and we talk about the price! Weddings are beautiful but yo have to budget, do what is within your means, and dont get carried away - as it is so easy to.....
Remember the wedding is one day but you have the rest of your life to begin after, and you dont want to start in debt.
