So I realize I have been seriously slacking w/ wedding stuff. So I decided to kick it into full scale and get stuff accomplish in spite of some family issues that I have been trying to deal with. Anyway things were finally falling into place and the stuff to put our invites together (we are making them) came in. Yeah I thought, now we can start making our invite. Well the next day at work fh calls me and tells me the inserts wont work in his printer at work at that I should have ordered the full sheet size. Now mind you the invites was his job, he is a graphic artist and he claims that he knew the inserts wouldn't work, but didn't say anything b/c I wanted things the way I wanted them. Well I completely lost it and in my cube started crying hysterically and basically cursing him out. Well honestly the fix was minor for the invites but I completely lost it. Please tell me I'm not alone?
rkl1130
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You are totally not alone! I started crying at church with FH yesterday (we were there for class) because of invites.
Christys0925
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I have 6 months to go and have already had a few, Don't worry you are not alone !!!
vmystique33
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Awwwwwwe sweetie you are far from alone I have a breakdown every payday
Lools
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we all go busurk at some point!! I'm waiting my turn, I'm sure it'll happen!
ETAB
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You are definetely not alone... it is normal! How do you feel now?
TNT
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I havent had one yet, But i feel it coming on any month now. I am curios to see what it is that is going to set me off. I will keep you posted
AlmostKulak
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I have had a few so far and I am sure there will be many more!!!
portjeffbride
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I haven't had a full throttle meltdown, but I have been acting wierd for the last several weeks.... stressed and almost depressed by the giant pile in my 'in box'.
I've been really good about organizing the ceremony and reception, while also enduring some oral surgery, exercising, and working / taking classes.
well, I'm stressed becuase while all of it is getting done, my work has been suffering, and the exercising stopped 3 weeks ago. I only re-started this weekend (and oh my, am I sore )
While planning is somewhat on schedule, I must re-set my focus constantly among these numerous tasks.
My current status: recovered from oral surgery
finally re-started regular exercise
made minor work deadline, but larger project goals are looming, and I'm currently doing background work.... but catching up well...
wedding planning: did first fitting, getting RSVPS, rings out for engraving, program and placecards ready and waiting to print / assemble, need hair trial appt.... I guess I'm in a good position, but I'm soooo tired of the long 'to do list', and most of all THE BILLS
I should add that none of this has cuased arguments between me and FH.... but he's sort of concerned about me internalizing stress. he of course always remains calm somehow...
milana
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you are not alone!!! Its really unbelievable to me how little things like a minor disagreement can escalate into something else like a major fight! Im sorry it happens to everyone
rfilipofornow
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you certainly are not the only one!!! i've had PLENTY of meltdowns so far. but it will get better and everything will work out in the end
Rscaduto
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havent had a wedding breakdown yet , but about oither things I have
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Posted by ETAB
You are definetely not alone... it is normal! How do you feel now?
I feel so find now. Just not like me to break down especially at work. FH felt absoulutely awful that he made me cry.
I hope it doesn't happen again.
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The invites were the cause of my breakdown and screaming at FH too!!! Damn those invites!! haha...he decided he was gonna 'help' me by sealing the envelopes...he put way too much water on the envelopes and they all started sticking together...he ruined about 15 of them...my invites were DIY so i was happy to almost be done..we laugh about it now...but i was screaming & crying too!!!!! Don't feel bad
0707Bride
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I think I'm on my third! Hahaha Invites seem to do that to us brides for some reason. UGH! I can't wait until they are sent out.
diva7531
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I have one every 28 days!!!!!
jessruth9
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It's a stressful process and everyone has their moments. It's not easy planning a wedding!
waypis
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Not at all, cool as a cucumber
chatxleau24
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i've been having quiet breakdowns on a daily basis about the wedding and issues with my company. you're definitely NOT alone!
Im glad youre feeling better. Men suck - they cant help it - i still think its the issue with their external member.
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I have been having break downs like every other day. I am starting to freak out. Good thing for FH, only 24 dyas left... he might kill me if there was more time!
