Having a hard time...........

NYCHICK Posted: Nov 06, 2003 07:20 PM

Having a hard time...........

..trying to make all the bridesmaids happy. I want some sense of uniformity at my wedding so I am not open to the idea of having everyone wear a different dress, but my MOH who is very obsessed with being different has picked a dress(way over my assigned budget), that is so hard to coordinate with. Anybody else having the bridesmaid blues This is the dress she wants

04Bride Posted: Nov 06, 2003 07:26 PM

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While its a nice dress it is a little hard to match you might just have to put your foot down without being to bridezillish and tell her that its too much. Good luck

NYCHICK Posted: Nov 06, 2003 07:35 PM

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She also wants to tell me what she wants the other girls to wear. The thing is she wants to look way better than them, isn't that a bit selfish?

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Nov 06, 2003 07:39 PM

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I LOVE the dress..

WHo makes it ?

MrsTC Posted: Nov 06, 2003 07:42 PM

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georgeous dress -

BUT - this is YOUR wedding!! Not your MOH's...don't let her pressure you. Tell her that it is out the budget and not fair to the other BMs....and look around, you may be able to find something similiar!

NYCHICK Posted: Nov 06, 2003 07:45 PM

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Belsoie is the designer. I will make her find something that I would like and coordinate it for this dress if she wants it so bad, or else I will have to pick something different. DARN ME for trying to have a participative wedding, I should have told everyone to keep their opinions to themselves and I do what i want