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heels or flats for day of

Original post by glenisland09

Hi ladies,

So now that I finally bought my dress I'm wondering what to do about shoes. I'm a fairly tall girl (5'6) so I don't need heels for height but I think I'd like to wear them, at least initially. I'm concerned that if I get the dress hemmed to the right length while wearing heels the dress will drag and look bad in pics if I switch to slippers at the reception. What are your thoughts... what are you ladies doing?

TIA
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squeekietoy Posted:

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I'm 5'10 so I definately wore flats.
Someone here mentioned that your dress falls as the day progresses. This is true. In the beginning of the day I didn't trip over my dress once. By the end of the night, I had almost slipped several times on one of the underlayers of my dress. So, if you're planning on changing from heels to flats, be prepared.
pooh57362 Posted:

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Posted by Dani777

I'm 5'2 and I'm getting 3' heels....after pics are done I'm going into my slippers though LOL



Me too!!!
Cacarina Posted:

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Flats for me, FH is 5'8, I am 5'10!

If I could, I would totally wear heels because I love high heels. You could probably wear heels for the ceremony and then have them alter the dress so that when you bustle it, you can wear flats? I don't know if you can do that, totally just a guess, LOL.
shell1879 Posted:

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Posted by coldasice217


Posted by shell1879

i'm 5' 7' and i'm planning on wearing a 2' heel
since weddng dreses are made for a 5' 9' frame with a 2' heel i don't need a hem
and i'm not worried about my dress dragging when i take my shoes off.



Are they really made with the intention of a 5'9' frame??? That would explain why mine is SHORT



yes i'm sorry
NikkiR515 Posted:

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I am about 5'9 1/2 so I will probably only wear an inch heel or so..FH is 6'1ish and since I will have pretty high hair (pics in the album!) I don't want ot be taller than him!
MrsGRod09 Posted:

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I'll be wearing short kitten heels so i can have a heel and not kill myself lol

JamDancer Posted:

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Posted by Still the One

My heels are about 3', so I bought platform flip flops from totes/isotoner's websites. They are so cute and look very 'bridal'. That way, the flip flops won't be too far off from the height of the shoes.

totes isotoner flip flops



awesome, thank you! Perfect, no blisters! GOod price too, I definitely will get these.
CAM1223 Posted:

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I am about 5'4' and I am wearing heels at first. I was thinking of getting Flip-Flops but maybe the ones with a little wedge so I keep the height w/the dress.
fonz616 Posted:

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I will be wearing some type of flats-- prob ballet flats. Did not want to have to order extra length for the dress...plus FH is only a couple inches taller than I am.

AFutureBride Posted:

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I'm around 5'6' and I plan on wearing around 2 to 2.5 inch heels. I can't imagine not wearing heels for such an occasion!

If my feet get tired maybe I'll get one of those wedge heel white slippers from VSecret
Jna2010 Posted:

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im 5'2'', so its gonna be heels for me! and i hope all night, cuz i dont want my dress dragging, i know someone who took her shoes off and everyone kept stepping on her dress and parts of it ripped
DnJ0809 Posted:

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Posted by Dani777

I'm 5'2 and I'm getting 3' heels....after pics are done I'm going into my slippers though LOL



Ditto!

In fact I just bought satin white slippers if needed. And if I don't use them at all, they were only $7.50 and can be worn around the house.
MnM182008 Posted:

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I am a short girl 4'11. I got 4 inch heels, I wore them for my ceremony and to take pictures that was it. I went bare foot there after. I was having such a great time, I didn't really care. And besides after pictures who cares if your dress is dragging. I say get heels for the start of the day and than bring flats.

beram63 Posted:

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sadly, flats (tho i'd love to wear some of the sexy heels the other brides are picking out) bc i'm about 1/2 inch taller than FH. HE'LL be wearing heels

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