Help!

Ladies as some of you know i'm not close with my family and some are not going maybe none. I see a psychologist every month so he can help me with my issues. Last week i was diagnosed with major depression and many more stuff. I was so scare i cound't even speak i just started to cry. Imagine that because of the abuse you suffered you are tramatise. Well he said the only thing that can help me is antidepressants.

So my wedding is in two months and my invites are going to be out next week. I have a problem my Mom is on the list we were never that close but we lived together. She will always scream at me and call me bad things. Well we got a little better once i moved out of the house but it still comes back to hunt me all those bad memorise. I really don't want her there because she was never there for me but some people don't understand. I'm very confusse and scare. I'm very upset becuase now i have to use meds. People say she is your mother no matter what. What should i do now that i'm sending the invites?
Sorry for it been little long.

Im sorry to hear this BUT things will be OK, I promise. Anti-depressants arent that big of a deal.. I hope that you will end up OK and eventually just STOP taking the pills.. This happened to me, but not depression- I had anxiety. The pills helped me not have anxiety and eventually I just went off of them and Im fine now. They ddint alter the way I felt or my mood or antyhing...

As far as your mom- its a rough decision. Ulitimately its up to you. But yes she IS your mother and always will be. And also- I know of alot of girls who had BIG issues with their moms before they got married, but after marriage they became best friends. And if not best friends, they are now closer and dont have too many problems...

Its really up to you though.. I hope this helped A LITTLE??

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You have FM

Awww sweetie! I don't even know what to say! You seem like such a great girl! I am so sorry you had to go through that!

I can't tell you what to do about your mom, I wish I had the answer! I am hear if you need to chat!

Im so sorry that u are going through a rough time right now.
if u want my opinion... ur mom will always be ur mom so llater on in lfe.. if things change btw u 2 .. u might regret not inviting her to ur wedding.
I know what u mean about her not being there for u and now its kinda too late but u never know how some relationshsips might turn out. I really with u all the luck in the workd sweety. Noone really deserves to be going though this at the time when they are supposed to be the happiest.