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HELP!!!

SoontobeMrsMc Posted:

HELP!!!

Please help! I have plenty of time until my wedding.... almost 9 months and I'm not stressed at all about the things that I have to do (Because I have so much time left). But I feel like there are so many things that I just don't know about.

For ex: Maybe I'm stupid but I had no clue that I was supposed to bring toasting flutes, cake topper, cake cutter, wishing well, WE DO (for cake table) or a card box to my wedding. Can someone please give me a run down of all the things I need to bring/have/do? The other day, someone sent me an awesome list of things to do and it really helped but it didn't include the little things that I need. Any suggestions? Please tell me anything and everything that I need.
beleebuton Posted:

Re: HELP!!!

help with what?

jaiese Posted:

Re: HELP!!!

Everything you mentioned aren't really necessities, just things you need to provide if you WANT them. You should first take a look thru some wedding magazines and the brides' review section of this site and decide what things you want to have at your wedding to make it special to you and FH. THEN, decide which of those things you want to get. The only things you NEED for your wedding are you, FH, a license and an officiant. Don't stress yourself doing things just b/c other people are doing them. Do what you think is best.

HTH!
SoontobeMrsMc Posted:

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Thanks! It definitely helped. I thought I had everything pretty much done (other than favors and little things) and then after looking around on here and talking to a couple married friends, I found out about all the other little things. I didnt know that most brides use those things. I don't mind making them or buying them but I didnt even know they existed. I guess I'll look around some more for ideas. Thank you
emcheung Posted:

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like the above poster said, most of these things aren't necessary. figure out what you want at your wedding and how much time you have to make or purchase these things. i'm foregoing most of those things...like petal cones, cardbox, etc. noone will miss them.

DeannaNDave07 Posted:

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you can also look at the LIW checklist, or the knot checklist to see what you might want or need , that you could be forgetting. thats what i did.

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