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GIGIBRIDE04 Posted:

HELP

MY FH AND I CAME UP WITH OUR BRIDAL PARTY LIST AND WE HAVE UNEVEN AMOUNT OF PEOPLE
9 BRIDESMAIDS AND 11 GROOMSMEN, WHAT DO I DO? HAS ANYONE HAD THIS PROBLEM OR KNOWS
SOMEONE WHO HAS. ANY IDEAS HOW TO PAIR THEM UP IN CHURCH??
PLEASE HELP
violet Posted:

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I have this problem too. There's going to be 6 bridesmaids and 8 groomsmen. I'm just going to have two girls walk down with 2 guys. I'm thinking that's what I'll do, not positive. I thought maybe have the twosomes come down first, then the girls with two guys last.

At first, I thought there was going to be 7 groomsmen, and my fiance's mom was like 'just ask another girl'. No, you can't do that. You can't put people in for filler to make it even. You should only have the people you want in your party. It's better to be uneven than to hurt people's feelings and take them out to make it even.
Misty Posted:

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This is not a problem. Just double up on 2 of your BM's and it'll be fine...I did it for 3 of mine. No worries.

GIGIBRIDE04 Posted:

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THANKS LADIES I FEEL BETTER NOW
palebride Posted:

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we have 4 BM and 5 groomsmen.
it's not about even numbers...it's about choosing the people who are important to you!!!
MindyL28 Posted:

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In the same boat... I have 7 on my side and he has 5. At first I freaked out but it is what it is. I am having everyone walk down by themselves- that will make it look less uneven. Those are the people that we want int he wedding and in the end- I figured that it didn't really matter.

GIGIBRIDE04 Posted:

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THANKS AGAIN
julybride444 Posted:

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I would say just have two guys walk down together...

gertyrae Posted:

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Alternate guys and girls, instead of having them walk together. Have a guy start and a guy end. My friend did that at her wedding, she had two extra guys. When we came into the reception, two guys were with the first two girls.

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