My FH is out of control these days, he has become a nut regarding the RSVP cards...our deadline or due date is 7/31...he has gone behind my back and called and emailed everyone thus far who has not sent theirs back as of yet....he is very diplomatic but our guests are calling and sending emails laughing and such....the closer the date gets the more of a nut he becomes....he is writing the final payment to our CH this weekend...I'm like please I have been spending since last year every paycheck man...he stated he cannot stand the pressure and does not understand how we 'brides' stay so calm....I told him I stopped flipping months ago...I'm in the zone right now...la-la-la-la....I can't deal with him right now! SUGGESTIONS PLEASE I'M GOING TO KILL HIM!!!
chichila15
Posted:
Member since
Re: Help FH is out of control...
Are we marrying the same guy? My FH has also been flipping out, and like you, I've remained calm. My guy hasn't flipped out about RSVPs yet (we send out the invitations next week), but he is thinking about the $$$$$. I keep telling him to trust me, everything will be fine, and if we have an emergency, we have my credit card (nothing on it now). But no, he's a cash-only person, and is bugging out.
Arghhhhhh! Men!
LADYLUV69
Posted:
Member since
Re: Help FH is out of control...
Hey, this is a Kodak moment. Most men do not freak out. It is funny how we have been planning the wedding for the past year to a year and a half and we were freaking out since then. Now we are down to double digits and they want to get pyscho on a chick! The hardest part is done and complete. If the R.S. V.P are not in, I took it as a no. I have a wedding coordinator for the reception hall and if you did not make the list you were either not invited or did not send the response card back! Thanks but no thanks.
CaCRmr
Posted:
Member since
Re: Help FH is out of control...
I guess because I'm not at that point yet so my FH isn't like that....Is that what I have to look forward to?
charlotte227
Posted:
Member since
Re: Help FH is out of control...
CACmr yes that is what will happen to you too!
Ladies thanks!
agv
Posted:
Member since
Re: Help FH is out of control...
Grab a girlfriend.....go get some margaritas....and laugh about how much of a psycho he is being. That works for me
charlotte227
Posted:
Member since
Re: Help FH is out of control...
hey AGV we laugh when they call me he knows and starts cursing louder in the background we laugh harder because he is serious
JR0703
Posted:
Member since
Re: Help FH is out of control...
Okay that is totally normal... I am pretty anal when it comes to everything.. I wanted everything perfect and I wouldnt let anyone help me I preferred to do it myself. But now that things are getting closer I am sitting back and letting people take care of me. My RSVP day is today and I have about 50 people that have responded and 132 that have responded. People are irresponsible and they go away in the summer I will probbly call peole next week. Just remember how crazy maybe you were in the beginning of this long process and that the reason why he is going crazy is because he wants everthing perfect and doenst want to be short of money. It's a man thing, he wants to make sure that he provides everything that you may want.
LADYLUV69
Posted:
Member since
Re: Help FH is out of control...
You gotta laugh b/c it is quite funny. the shoes are now on the other foot.
Kriss2c
Posted:
Member since
Re: Help FH is out of control...
By chance did you register for a rolling pin, or heavy grade skillet?? This is the time to put it to the test.
Let him do the following up.... one less thing you need to concern yourself with.
