HEY LADIES I NEED ADVICE I AM HAVING SOME ROUGH ISSUE WITH THE FH ... WELL MY FH HAS THIS BESTFRIEND WHO IS NOT DOING WELL WITH US GETTING MARRIED FISRT SHE WAS SUPPOSE 2 BE IN THE WEDDING THEN SHE CUSED A SEEN AT MY SHOWER DRUNK NO I DONT WANT HER AT MY WEDDING HE DOES AND ME AND HIM ARE FIGHTING THE BEST IS SHE DONT WANNA BE THERE AS SHE STATED BUT HE IS ALL TRYING TO DEFEND HER AND HER ACTIONS AND ITS LIKE HE IS MORE WORRIED ABOUT HER THEN US
You need to talk to him and talk about her like you're not against her. He's defending her because you're attacking her. Try talking to him about her without attacking.
I THINK I HAVE BEEN I EVEN TRIED TO SPEAK TO HER AND SHE ATTACKED ME SAID HAVE A NICE LIFE
Something like that being said.......I would not want her in the wedding.
I remeber the post you made about your shower....it sounds like she is being really disrespectful to you,,,I say hell no should she be at the wedding god knows the scene she'll cause...Id explain this to FH
I would calmly talk to FH and explain to him all the things she has said and done to you. I don't blame you for not wanting her there. Are you sure she will definitely show up? even if you invite her she may choose to not show and then you look like the bigger person for inviting her and she looks like the idiot for not coming to her best friends wedding. Just a thought
if someone disrespected me and acted horribly at my shower, and showed no respect towards my relationship with DH i would NOT invite them. I would tell Dh straight up that i do not want somebody at my wedding that is so disrespectful to me, and as my DH or Fh at the time bc it would be before the wedding, i would say that he better feel the same way as I do. I would expect him to stick up for me if any of his friends disrespected me in any way, i shouldn't even have to tell him. And either he needs to fix it or sorry they wont be invited.
