Help!! Need Suggestions.......

My wedding party consists of my cousin, one of my sister's (I have 2), and my daughter. Now the thing is my mother spoke to my other sis, who's live in Texas and she told her who I was having in the wed, party,and I didn't ask her because, 1. she was my MOH first time around and plus she lives so far away and is in the middle of an adoption!!! So I just fiquired it would be too much on her. Next thing is, that she has a beautiful voice and has a band and so on.... So I was thinking of having her sing at my wedding during the ceremony and at the end (Edda James, 'At Last') right when we are pronouned husband and wife!!!,so I need suggestions on how I can ask her without her feeling that she isn't playing a larger part in the wedding, or will she?? Help, I just need some insight. Thanks to All!!

Help!! Need Suggestions.......

You don't really need to tell her too much more than what you mentioned above. Just say that you really want to include her in a way that will work in her busy life. Tell her it would mean a lot to you if she would lend her beautiful voice to the reception for a few songs. If things are as busy as you mention, I don't see her putting up much of a fight.