Help...indecisiveness

Hi! I am new to this site and need opinions (positives and negatives) between the top choices. So we initially always invisioned having a destination wedding, but after careful consideration we ended up switching to staying in NY. Since, we've been looking at venues like crazy (and although I know what I am looking for at the end of the day) I want the perfect day...as everyone does. Ideally my plan was to have a beautiful wedding on the water overlooking the city skyline. We found a few but the ones within a reasonable range are somehow lacking (the hall itself, the outside and some the actual rooms, the menu, etc)SO I am willing to compromise, take pics in b/t ceremony and reception by the water if the venue doesnt offer one.

As this has been incredibly tough, I need help deciding the best option between Sandcastle in Franklyn Square, North Ritz in Syosset, Marina Del Rey in Throgs Neck, and Terrace on the Park in Corona. Need to book a place tomorrow and am out of time and the pressure is causing me too much stress. Any input is appreciated!