my husband decides now that he doesnt need counseling and that hes not coming tonight and that this is over!!! what an a$$hole!!
i cant believe him right now. he says that he married a 40 year old woman- referencing that i dont like to go out and have a good time.. if you knew me that is so untrue.. but his idea of a good time is coming home obliterated....sorry not my idea of having fun with my husband...
i am numb right now- ive been crying here at workall day. he was so mean to me on the phone...he has some serious issues. maybe this is a good thing but right now i have a pit in my stomach.... he says he has a drinkingproblem but so what so do all of his friends..real mature 31 year old....
the one person that cares about him and doesnt want him ending up 'dead' has given me the boot! at this point even if he had a revelation i dont think id want him back.
sucks- its my birthday next week and im going to be miserable!!!!!i know it will be bettwr for me in the long run but i am so angry at him for making his problem my fault!!!
eta- thanks for fms-i can see that i have them but i cant read them at work they are blocked!
swags1016
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Aw Kristi I am so sorry. I had hoped he had a change of heart. But this might save you more heart in the end. Please take care of yourself and lean on us, your friends and your family for any support you need. You know that we are ALL here for you.
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thanks again for everyones support- i just watched Will and Grace and realized I didnt even get my weddung video yet. Thats going to be hard...
I am sorry you have to go through this, hopefully one day you can look back and realize this is for the better.
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I am so sorry- please try to surround yourself with your family and friends and try to take this 1 day @ a time.
Jen_n_Dale
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You poor thing!!!! I know there are no words!
nferrandi
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I am so sorry it's come to this. I think for your own sanity, you should do your best to at keast TRY to make yourself happy right now. Turn to your friends and family, go get a massage, do some shopping. I know that sounds trivial, but the little things will help you get through this.
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Kristi, I am so very sorry it has come to this. I am really so upset!! I know you outside of LIW and I know what a beautiful, gorgeous, smart, intelligent, fun loving, caring, sweet, and amazing person you are and I know for a fact that he will be sorry for doing this. One day he will wake up, and realize that he has nothing, while you, as smart and beautiful as you are will have regained control of your live and go on to be totally happy and get all the wonderful things you deserve in life!!You do not deserve to be treated the way he is treating you and you should most definitely not have to go through life wondering if your husband will be home tonight. I know this is just the beginning of a long tough road for you, but know that everyone on here, your family, friends (me included) are all going to be there to support you in any way, shape or form! My heart is seriously breaking for you!! I just want to go find your husband myself and shake the sh1t out of him and ask him what the hell he is thinking, leaving the best thing that has ever entered his life!! I am here for you if you need anything. Call me if you need anything!! I am so sorry!!
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I am so sorry that you are going through this. From an unbiased outsider looking in it seems like your husband is an a--hole! I am so sorry to be completely blunt with you. What he is putting you through is not fair you DESERVE much much much better. Your husband reminds me of my exfinance (from what I read on your posts). I know your going to face some hard times ahead, but try to keep your head up and remember you're going to be a stronger and smarter person after this.
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take him for all he is worth..........Kristi i am sorry about what you are going through....you will get through it in the long run.........fm if you need too
