hey everyone I need some helpp---

Original post by MrsS4

Jan 09, 2008 12:13 AM

Hello everyone,

My name is Chrissy & im a little new to both the site & wedding planning-- I may be planning a little early but I truly want to be prepared for my big day!!!

I want to know about how much my wedding will run us as well as a little help with finding a hall... I truly had my heart set on Oheka Castle, however my father I believe will only give 50k so as I have estimated-- 20k site fee & 250$ per head will already have me way above and beyond the 50k just for the hall-- I have no problem spending more then 50k on the wedding-- I am almost positive it will be over 70k however I am now looking for a different hall-- I really do not want another wedding to take place during mine-- I do however like the was Leonards looks & the food and rooms are just beautiful-- I have not yet priced it-- but we are looking to have less then 200 people. Does anyone know another hall that resembles either Oheka or Leonards on Long Island---

Thank you soo muchh--

Chrissy

xcalystax Posted: Jan 09, 2008 01:06 PM

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I had my wedding at Leonards and because of the fact that I got married in November, I was the only wedding there that day (random luck). I have to say, their service was excellent and the food was great. We went with alot of the upgrades in regards to menu, venetian hour, etc and it was totally worth it.

Nelle5757 Posted: Jan 09, 2008 01:54 PM

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I would go and talk to Oheka Castle. My MOH is getting married their in Sept. 08 and she got them down in site fee and per head. It isn't a significant amount, but it was enough for her to have the wedding there. Also take in account the day of the week and season and you could be looking at your wedding there.

staceylacey Posted: Jan 09, 2008 02:23 PM

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I got married at Oheka. They worked with me on price! FM me if you have any questions about that!

jteach711 Posted: Jan 09, 2008 02:30 PM

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You should check out Floral Terrace it is 1 wedding at a time and can hold like 500 people

JennNicole Posted: Jan 09, 2008 02:52 PM

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My DH wanted to get married @ the Oheka cause he thought we might catch a break being we have some pull. Bottom line is it was still not enough to make me book it! Our break was the site fee waved but the per head price was still a bit over $300 w/out tax - not including the extras you need to consider. Valet, extra Matre'd
example (coat check),extra rooms in the estate,gratuities, the list goes on. So really your base price is now increasing.
I herd stories from guests that have attended weddings there and they have ALL mentioned the food is very average or even sometimes not editable.
Your paying for the beautiful property ,ambiance & Name.
A bit overrated for getting your money's worth.
I herd stories from Brides I know personally that had their wedding there and they loved the castle. (It is beautiful) but keeping in mind their budget was well over $300.000 so at that point I am sure it is great - brides barely eat their food anyway. lol

I went to a wedding of someone years back and it was very pretty, and had a similar feel to you what you might be looking for. It is a compromise but go check it out if you have not already.
http://www.glencovemansion.com

If anything else comes to mind I will let you know.
I think there are lots of estates that are 'mansion' like in NJ area and upstate Westechster if your willing to have your guests travel.
In the meantime - good luck on your findings :)

MrsS4 Posted: Jan 09, 2008 10:25 PM

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again--- thank you everyoneee----

I looked at the bourne mansion and I really didn't like it-- again I think that too looks like a house-- I am still the most intrigued by Leonards-- any other opinions? i looked at glen cove mansion, flowerfields, sand castle, floral terrace and so many others that i dont remember-- there was one in staten island that i forgot the name but i didnt like either also I dont like any of the lessings halls either -- sorry for being a little nasty about what I want-- i am more or less looking in long island-

thank you so much everyone--

Chrissy

finallygotthering Posted: Jan 09, 2008 10:33 PM

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Posted by MrsS4

again--- thank you everyoneee----

I looked at the bourne mansion and I really didn't like it-- again I think that too looks like a house-- I am still the most intrigued by Leonards-- any other opinions? i looked at glen cove mansion, flowerfields, sand castle, floral terrace and so many others that i dont remember-- there was one in staten island that i forgot the name but i didnt like either also I dont like any of the lessings halls either -- sorry for being a little nasty about what I want-- i am more or less looking in long island-

thank you so much everyone--

I had a friend that got married at Leonards she had a week day wedding and she was the only bride and she paid a great price

Chrissy

MrsS4 Posted: Jan 09, 2008 10:36 PM

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Posted by finallygotthering

Posted by MrsS4

again--- thank you everyoneee----

I looked at the bourne mansion and I really didn't like it-- again I think that too looks like a house-- I am still the most intrigued by Leonards-- any other opinions? i looked at glen cove mansion, flowerfields, sand castle, floral terrace and so many others that i dont remember-- there was one in staten island that i forgot the name but i didnt like either also I dont like any of the lessings halls either -- sorry for being a little nasty about what I want-- i am more or less looking in long island-

thank you so much everyone--

I had a friend that got married at Leonards she had a week day wedding and she was the only bride and she paid a great price

Chrissy

i really-- want a saturday night wedding-- i am sure compared to Oheka the price will be fine--i just wanted other hall ideas---

thank you everyone

jtgarsik Posted: Jan 09, 2008 10:38 PM

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glad u liked jt :) if u like the decor and that elegance, i'd also suggest checking out Leonards of Great Neck...thats another beautiful location for a reasonable price :) we also liked the winter garden pavillion at fox hollow but the room maxed out at 150. good luck!

jtgarsik Posted: Jan 09, 2008 10:40 PM

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ps: 'The Estate' at east wind is also really nice..they have 3reception areas...'Country Gardens' which is also really nice but geared towards a smaller wedding, and another one as well....The Estate is my favorite

cbakos85 Posted: Jan 09, 2008 11:01 PM

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Leonards is AMAZING... i have been to soooo many events there, and have booked my wedding there as well for Nov. 09. The price i was quopted for a Saturday night was GREAT!!!! I have quotes for saturday evenings as well as mornings for Nov . FM me if you want the prices.

beachbum05 Posted: Jan 09, 2008 11:06 PM

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Did you look at Venetian Yacht Club?

Annoulak Posted: Jan 09, 2008 11:11 PM

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You may want to try Caffe on the Green in Bayside...not quite a mansion, but not quite a house either

MrsS4 Posted: Jan 09, 2008 11:13 PM

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Posted by beachbum05

Did you look at Venetian Yacht Club?

I just tried looking them up-- what I saw was pretty but no pictures of the outside were shown--has anyone had their wedding there??

thank youu

MrsS4 Posted: Jan 09, 2008 11:15 PM

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Posted by Annoulak

You may want to try Caffe on the Green in Bayside...not quite a mansion, but not quite a house either

yiasou anoula-- lol i too am greek well the FH is as well-- there's a surprise lol--- he lives right by there-- and I have seen it it is okay-- I really want something to compare to Leonards that is where I am leaning towards as of now-- I just wanted more options to bring to the table--

thanks everyonee for all of the help

MrsS4 Posted: Jan 10, 2008 01:01 AM

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Posted by MrsS4

Posted by Annoulak

You may want to try Caffe on the Green in Bayside...not quite a mansion, but not quite a house either

yiasou anoula-- lol i too am greek well the FH is as well-- there's a surprise lol--- he lives right by there-- and I have seen it it is okay-- I really want something to compare to Leonards that is where I am leaning towards as of now-- I just wanted more options to bring to the table--

thanks everyonee for all of the help

BUMPP

beachbum05 Posted: Jan 10, 2008 01:18 AM

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Posted by MrsS4

Posted by beachbum05

Did you look at Venetian Yacht Club?

I just tried looking them up-- what I saw was pretty but no pictures of the outside were shown--has anyone had their wedding there??

thank youu

Many girls have had their wedding there. Its right on the water. If you do a search for venetian yacht club on the review board you'll find some pictures and reviews.

Another place that might be the style you're looking for...El Caribe?