How does everyone deal with holidays now that you are engaged/getting married. DF likes to spend the holidays with his family, I like to spend most with mine. Hei is a creature of habit, likes his mothers cooking on the holidays, etc. I want to spend Easter with my Dad in NJ, so then I thought we could spend Thanksgiving with his family, then we split Christmas between the two families.....
How does everyone else deal with holidays and is anyone else going to have problems now that they are married, etc.?
DnellD809
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We went to visit his family in Denver last year for christmas and since we'll be living there for the next one I'm hoping we'll go to NY this year!!!
SeaMaiden
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we havent really divided up the holidays yet, we take them as they come. FMIL is pretty controlling about that but so far not too much problems as long as we eat dinner or dessert with them for each holiday.
KickinDandelions
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We split every holiday. Our moms have been really good at planning around the other mom's celebrations, so if one person is doing lunch the other will do dinner or one will do saturday the other will do sunday. It's hectic, but we I just couldn't bear to not be around either of our families during the holidays. We were also kicking around the idea of his family coming to one of my family celebrations...but think it may be too crazy
