HOLY COW!

I cant find it.... basically this girl kissed another guy, and she was super upset about it. she was asking what she should do - tell FH or not tell him.

Basically, a cr@pload of people were like 'You should be ashamed of yourself. IIIIIIIIII would never do that.'

Just super judgemental stuff...

oh its like we're in high school again...some people make mistakes...and they need advice and thats why we are all together ...to help one another!
all i know is that I love my 08 girls.....you girls rock!

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Posted by Soon2BMrsD

you guys are like family on here and i feel like i betray when i go on other threads..

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Oh, if that wasn't one of the sweetest things I read all week, I don't know what is! I was actually thinking about it earlier, and how we've all been posting so much, and it's over a year till our weddings, that by the time we start getting married, we'll know each other so well. And how nice it is that we'll be so involved and so excited for each other. These days, when I look at brides' proofs and reviews and stuff, I think that they look pretty and that I'm happy for them... but I can't wait until it's you girls' time. You know what I mean?

Okay... embarrassing mushy sentiment is over for now...

im a little confused
are we talking about the stealing vendor, cancelling people disgusting behavior of fellow ladies???

oh , ok now i know what u r talking about
sorry im a little out of it tonight

people can just be RUDE!!!

yea there was a nasty post earlier today, from some newbie. I just cant get offended, because im sure she is just very jealous. Her remarks were extremely rude. And alot of people were very insulted. Its unfortunate when people post such negative things...the 2008 board is the BEST!!!!

It was on the cheating post, the girl wrote something to the extent about the brides giving advice to tell FH she cheated were on this high horse or soemthing and 50% of them will be divorced anyway. I cant remember the whole thing, but the girl only had a few posts.

actually, this thread started this afternoon in response to a thread on the BHB board in which a girl claimed that she had kissed a guy other than her FH, and was in agony trying to decide whether or not to tell him. People came on and basically called her out, insulting her, telling her they'd never forgive their FH if he did that to them, trying to make her feel like garbage. Whatever.

But now, in response, some OTHER girl has made up a fake name for herself and is making fun of LIW'ers support for each other - I wonder if this is the same girl from a month ago who told us we were stupid because we never said that someone's dress is ugly or that they look fat in it, and then told us that she was going to go out and sleep with our men? Remember that?! I think it's the same person.

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Posted by DavaDay

But now, in response, some OTHER girl has made up a fake name for herself and is making fun of LIW'ers support for each other - I wonder if this is the same girl from a month ago who told us we were stupid because we never said that someone's dress is ugly or that they look fat in it, and then told us that she was going to go out and sleep with our men? Remember that?! I think it's the same person.

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GET THE HE!! out of here!!!!!!!! You're kidding?! Someone said that!? YIKES!

At the same time though, I bet it caused a lot of drama. Everyone should just IGNORE those posts.

I posted something in regards to this about a month ago when i first read about how not everyone is on here for the same reasons

Like i said earlier, it is really disheartening to think that people would behave like that - I was so excited to find this website and have other girls to talk to about the same things. I know there are good people out there - You ladies are making me so happy that i changed my date from 12/22/07 to 1/13/08 !!!!!

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Posted by DavaDay

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Posted by Soon2BMrsD

you guys are like family on here and i feel like i betray when i go on other threads..

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Oh, if that wasn't one of the sweetest things I read all week, I don't know what is! I was actually thinking about it earlier, and how we've all been posting so much, and it's over a year till our weddings, that by the time we start getting married, we'll know each other so well. And how nice it is that we'll be so involved and so excited for each other. These days, when I look at brides' proofs and reviews and stuff, I think that they look pretty and that I'm happy for them... but I can't wait until it's you girls' time. You know what I mean?

Okay... embarrassing mushy sentiment is over for now...

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Dava.... I soooo know what you mean! Love you girl!!

I heart you ladiesssssssssssss mucho!

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Posted by DavaDay



(on a side note, I had my eyes peeled for '08 responses, and I have to say, I don't think any of us got on the Nastiness Train over there, and I'm very proud!! )

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OK, I admit, I made 1 comment. But I was just geting so fed up with people thinking who they are and trying to boss everyone else around. And I was getting REALLY tired of seeing,'Oh you cheatd b/c you're 21 and haven't experience life!' Um...NO! I'm 21 and know exactly what I want in life and have experienced plenty! Sorry, just a little venting left over.

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Posted by beachbum05

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Posted by DavaDay

But now, in response, some OTHER girl has made up a fake name for herself and is making fun of LIW'ers support for each other - I wonder if this is the same girl from a month ago who told us we were stupid because we never said that someone's dress is ugly or that they look fat in it, and then told us that she was going to go out and sleep with our men? Remember that?! I think it's the same person.

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GET THE HE!! out of here!!!!!!!! You're kidding?! Someone said that!? YIKES!

At the same time though, I bet it caused a lot of drama. Everyone should just IGNORE those posts.

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r u serious? This is so bizaree... It's really sad how some girls are so caught up in their own pity party & envy, it is just so sad

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Don't listen to all these brides off in Ignorant Bliss land.
A real relationship is complicated.
Don't complicate it more. Do your own soul searching and if you need to change your mind, then tell.

Otherwise chalk it up to what it was, a momentary freak out, or a bit of cold feet.

Trust me, a little kiss is not even close to what MANY MANY men do on their bachelor party.

Forget the kissing, lap dances have a naked girl rubbing herself on your FH's lap. Touching outside the clothes, slapping a bare ***. They don't consider that cheating. He's not gonna come home a tell you about that.

Don't fall into this guilty double-standard.
DO NOT TELL

Remeber----50% of these high and mighty brides are going to be divorced. You know this is not worth compromising your relationship over.

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This is what i got offended by this girl called wintersbride said this!!!

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Posted by cds58019

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Posted by DavaDay



(on a side note, I had my eyes peeled for '08 responses, and I have to say, I don't think any of us got on the Nastiness Train over there, and I'm very proud!! )

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OK, I admit, I made 1 comment. But I was just geting so fed up with people thinking who they are and trying to boss everyone else around. And I was getting REALLY tired of seeing,'Oh you cheatd b/c you're 21 and haven't experience life!' Um...NO! I'm 21 and know exactly what I want in life and have experienced plenty! Sorry, just a little venting left over.

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Haha, I totally know how you feel. It's like with me, I am so SICK of people commenting on why we're getting married almost 2 years after FH proposed. If someone had made a comment on the boards like, 'you just cheated because you have such a long engagement - if you really wanted to get married, you wouldn't wait so long' I would have come out swinging too!

thread

Here's the thread, although she took down her original message about what happened to her (her kissing her classmate)....

I feel bad for her. It was like a pack of hungry wolves.