Is anyone else feeling this frustration!!?!?!? We've been really focused on the house (our new but old house!), and now that the wedding is less than a year away, we really need to get moving with the planning!!
It's so hard though. One minute i'm thinking 'okay, I need to make a list and a game plan with the things that need to get done in the house' AND the next minute it's. . .'I need to make a list and book everything for the wedding'
I can't stand it!!!!! How are you other ladies dealing with this???
dianeb888
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I am on the same boat. We closed on our house a few weeks ago and we still haven't done anything wedding related since. We were so ahead of the game before and now I feel so behind. I haven't stared looking at BM dresses yet, haven't booked or looked at flowers/limos/invitations/ hair and makeup yet and time is going so fast.
Thats-What-She-Said
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relax ladies!!!!! You will be fine. You can choose to get a lot of stuff out of the way early, or once you book your vendors you can put things off.
The dresses will need to be ordered early, but once you have a florist, that can be handled the month before, invites 2 months, ect. You have plenty of time. You just have to decide you aren't going to let your self get stressed out.
Notwedyet08
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Don't worry-i bought my house 2 years ago and we're STILL slowly doing things and buying furniture. Just repainted my dining room this past weekend. When i do house things; i can't focus on wedding stuff and vice versa. Espcially financially!
allornil
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all i spend $ on is the freaking house. i wish it would burn to the ground sometimes. :(
Tromsugar2b
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FH and I got engaged about a year ago, we booked all the major vendors a little after that, and now we are focused on buying a house.
futurestevens
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i wish we could afford to do both - i would love to have a house now!
Tink1118
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we're in the same boat. we NEED new air conditioners, but that IS NOT going to happen any time soon (box fan it is...woo hoo).
it's hard, but just (try to) focus your attention on one thing or the other. (easier said than done, i know)
aquag12283
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were doing the same thing. we haven't bought a house. We've been looking at co-ops for the time being since FH works off the books and we cant show his income but I keep going back and forth we need to look for a place to live we need to finish planning the wedding. Its so annoying.
