Horribly ...good news

text message thread to my phone as follows
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sister : surgery is set for march 21st

me : what surgery?

sister : dad is getting a new kidney

me: WHAT?? from who?

sister: I'm giving him one of mine
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I had NO clue this was in the works and Scheduled now for 3 weeks before my wedding

I was SO upset for 3 reasons

ONE - I was kept in the dark that they were even testing for this

TWO- it's 3 WEEKS before my wedding

THREE - I am so stressed, and no one thought it important to tell me my dad and sister where have organs moved around.

I am THRILLED my dad can get a new kidney

but I was piiiisssed that I was kept in the dark about a major family event, so close to my own wedding!

Am I wrong?