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House and/or Wedding ?

Bee12 Posted:

House and/or Wedding ?

just curious .. Its hard to buy a home and have a wedding within the same yr for many but i know its feasible depending on the couple circumstances....

just wanted to get an idea of what others are currently doing /planning on doing
LoveyDovey Posted:

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the plannnnnn is to buy a house this july...wedding next spring

we'll see what happens though...
our lease is up in july and i reallllly do not want to live in a cramped apt any longer, we are busting at the seams!
ellie424 Posted:

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We're just focusing on our wedding right now and will rent after we get married for at least a year.

KN2011 Posted:

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We went into contract on a house before we were engaged, but got engaged right before closing. So, we bought the house first, and now are planning the wedding. Its alot, but well worth it

Bee12 Posted:

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Cool.. im sure im not alone... my FH thinks we are doing it backwards... eg. spending over $25K+ for wedding and not buying a place right now.. but thats too much $$ and stress for us for right now..I think wedding + renting is just fine given our situation....

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jackieee Posted:

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We would like to buy a house after the wedding. Married Aug 2010
Lease up oct 2010 (i can ask to extend it a few months)
would like to start looking this summer and use our wedding money for a down payment.
evita2781 Posted:

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we're hoping that we don't go over the budget and will have enough $ left over from savings plus money from gifts from the wedding to put as a down payment after the wedding.... but from the way that it's looking, i think we'll be renting sigh
Bee12 Posted:

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Posted by KN2011

We went into contract on a house before we were engaged, but got engaged right before closing. So, we bought the house first, and now are planning the wedding. Its alot, but well worth it



i really wish we could.. great deals right now ! and that tax credit CONGRATS!
Bee12 Posted:

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Posted by LoveyDovey

the plannnnnn is to buy a house this july...wedding next spring

we'll see what happens though...
our lease is up in july and i reallllly do not want to live in a cramped apt any longer, we are busting at the seams!



Wishing you all the luck !! (( crossing my fingers for you guys))
Mommy2BeBride Posted:

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Fh & I are paying for the wedding ourselves and we live in an apartment together now.

But my grandma was nice enough to offer to help us purchase a co-op after the wedding as our wedding gift.
Thats-What-She-Said Posted:

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I would love to buy but my school loans are astronomical!!!! And the taxes on long island are crazy
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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luckily we already own our home so we just have to pay for the wedding

VCanizalez Posted:

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Well... we want to hve a place for ourselves... we want to put more money into the House than the wedding.... We lookin at this in the Long term,...

So we are def. getting House first then wedding...
StaceYums81 Posted:

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we rent a house from my parents right now for very cheap so we are fortunate in that aspect

after the wedding we will begin saving for a house
20mrsc10 Posted:

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were having our wedding in july, renting for hopefully a year and then purchasing

im only 23, and just started working full time after graduating with my masters in may, so we just do not have a down payment right now

eta: we also dont live together yet-we wont until after the wedding
dianeb888 Posted:

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We are trying to do both, we have been house hunting for a few months and hope to close on something in time for the tax credit.

angelscri Posted:

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Posted by StaceYums81

we rent a house from my parents right now for very cheap so we are fortunate in that aspect

after the wedding we will begin saving for a house



That is our situation also. Hopefully we can buy a house 6 months to a year after the wedding
Tomlaur0808 Posted:

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We already had a house for 5 years prior to us getting engaged so....didnt really have to worry about that part...thankfully!

Kristan35 Posted:

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Fortunately for us, we bought a house 3 years ago. I couldn't imagine the stress of paying for a wedding and buying a house at the same time! I feel for those who are doing it!
HSsweethearts Posted:

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Just wedding. It's definitely one or the other, but we will look to get a co-op or condo after the wedding as a 'Step up' to owning a house

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