I'll start - one day we were hanging out as friends - we went hiking at Target Rock, and at the end he gave me that LOOK - I wasn't sure if I was ready for it, or ready for him to be the ONE... LOL...
One night we were henging out between my dance lessons (I was preparing for a bvallroom comp. in puerto rico) I asked if he wanted to get a coffee between lessons, and he walked me back to my studio after. I kissed him, then ran upstairs to the srudio. My instructor took one look at me and said - whats wrong with you? I stammered - 'I just kissed my husband!'
He was like - who???
That was 2 years ago!!!
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thats sweet. i met FH at a bar and i was in love at first sight. its wierd but i think i loved him before we even spoke. that night at the bar will be 6 years ago to the date of our wedding in january!!!
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wow... how sweet WE used to hang out all the time on my porch FH and a few friends but I had a boyfriend that did not live around my way, he used to always tell a mutual frind of ours that he thought i was pretty and he liked me of course the frind would tell me then we started to hang out more got to know each other then eventually we moved along to being more then afirnds and about 2 months later he told me he loved me that was 8 years ago.
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High school senior year trip to England we were on top of Dover Castle and it was soo surreal we ended up kissing and that was over 6 years ago
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He called me the day after our first date! NO games, NO BS I knew he was the one
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Posted by beautyq115
He called me the day after our first date! NO games, NO BS I knew he was the one
So did mine! That was another sign for me!!!
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When I was still living in Brooklyn, there was one day where I was home from work because I had an anaphylactic allergy attack. I was full of Benadryl and Adrenaline that the EMT's had given me. So needless to say I was out of it.
He actually drove to my house while he was supposed to be at work to bring me roses and check up on me.
At that point I knew he was a keeper. Well, that and the fact that he talked about us getting engaged on Valentine's Day last year (which we were only dating a month at the time!!)
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It is weird, but after he made me a name tag at the place we used to work.....it was 2 years before we started dating... that was 7 years ago...... but i knew we would one day be togeather.
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I definitely knew he was somebody special from the day I met him, and I knew that I loved him very early on in the relationship. But I think it was about 6 months into the relationship when I realized that I wanted to spend my whole life with him. It was the weekend before Halloween, 2000. I was 16, Jeff was 17. My dad was throwing my little sister this elaborate Halloween party with her friends, and as part of it Jeff and I dressed up as an elderly couple, with masks and wigs and everything, and we posed Jeff under my mom's car as if he'd been run over, and I came out screaming, and then my dad pulled out a coffin he'd built, and we carried the coffin to a hole he'd dug, and were burying it when Jeff came leaping out in a 'Scream' mask spraying silly string all over everybody. It was hilarious. You've never seen 10 year olds scream and run like that before...
Anyway, before the whole thing went down, the two of us were hiding in my parent's room in costume. So, there we are, dressed up as this old couple, and Jeff turns to me and says 'you know, if we were older, I'd ask you to marry me.' I think my heart must have skipped a beat. I think before then I'd known how much I loved him and that I wanted to always be with him, but I'd never really thought about in those terms before. We told each other that we were 'unofficially official,' meaning that we had officially decided we wanted to be together, but couldn't make it official. When we got engaged we would be 'officially unofficial,' and when we got married we would be 'officially official.' I don't know where we came up with this stuff...
So, yeah. Five years later, we're officially unofficial. And I will never forget that day, or that ridiculous Halloween stunt!
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I met my fh in college, I thought he was soooo annoying at first but he kept hanging around and eventually he wore me down...
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When I was standing on the soccer field in the pouring rain watching him coach his daughter's soccer team. Half-way through the game I realized that there was no place else I'd rather be. This was 3 weeks into our relationship.
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We've been together for over 8 years now! and I still get chills thinking about when we first met. We were on a hiking, rock climbing, and camping trip with a group and I saw how amazingly caring he was to a woman who hurt her hand. I said, I MUST meet him now. When we started talking behind a waterwall, I felt dizzy, literally, as soon as our eyes met. I honestly just felt IMMEDIATELY like I had come home -you know that feeling of everything in the world being right?
After that, my friend and I stole his frisbee and held it for ransom, demanding all sorts of ridicluous things like dinner and piggy back rides. We went to a park and stared up at the clouds and reclaimed our childhood by acting crazily on the playground. I've never laughed as hard as I did then. The rest is history and I cried tears of joy 2 months later in his arms, knowing that we wanted to be together forever.
We've put ourselves through 13 combined years of schooling, lived together, experienced family illness and deaths, etc, and yet he's been so strong- he's the most passionate, generous, and hilarious man I've ever met! I think everyone should be so lucky. He's constantly working to make things even better and we're best friends in every possible way! (Had to add our most recent pic 'cause he was so romantic there.)
I really can't explain how I knew.... We were on our fouth date - my first trip to see the NY Philharmonic, it was Mozart. (he had remembered from our first date that I had said I loved Mozart and had always wanted to go to the Philharmonic) and there before the first intermission, he moved a piece of hair out of my face and something just 'clicked' for me, and I just knew this was going to lead to marriage. A year and a week later we were engaged.
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I don't remeber an exact moment that I knew, but I remember talking about getting married very early into our relationship. We both knew thats where our relationship was going.
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I knew on our third date that he was THE ONE. We had just finished watching The Princess Diaries 2 and were taking a walk around the polluted man made lake in the park near my house when he just stopped, pulled me toward him and gave me the most heart pounding, knee weakening, heart melting kiss I EVER HAD. It felt like time stopped and that there was no one else but the two of us. I had never had that happen to me before..and its been heaven ever since!
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The minute I saw him I knew.
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it took me a LONG time, the timing of meeting my FH was really bad, I just was seperated from my first husband. But basically over time, he showed me a new life, a new way to love..I'm STILL a little scared, but i know there is noone that could ever love me the way he does. SO I can't say a SPECIFIC day or time, it was a gradual process for me, but I know there is noone I could have a healthier relationship with. It just feels really good!
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from the first nite we met...i felt something different for him. i was only visiting my family here in ny when i met him. (I was residing in Myrtle Beach, SC at the time) we clicked instantly. he actually called me the next day, when he said he would!! lol we went on a date, and it just seemed so right. we talked non-stop on the phone and thru letters from that point on, and i visited again a month later. 2 months after that i realized that it was time for me to move on from Myrtle Beach, and that i had a great guy who would be 'the one' up in NY; and decided to move back. we've been together ever since.
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We met online, and spoke for two months through IMs and emails. During this time, before we even saw what one another looked like, I knew he was something special. About a month after we started talking online, one of my best friends passed away from leukemia. It was one of the hardest times of my life, and he was there for me, even though we had never met in person. He helped me get through this very difficult time. When we met a month later, there was electricity between us that I had never felt before. All the feelings I had for him mulitplied then. When I got home from our first date, there was an email waiting for me to tell me what a wonderful time he had. He told me later was afraid to call in case I didn't feel the same way he did. But I did, and the rest is history~
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After our first date I knew he would definetly call, but I realized I knew about 3 months into the relationship when a co-worker was driving me home and she was asking about him, and then she asked do you think he's the one? Without hesitation I answered YES.
