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nella20005 Posted: Mar 25, 2013 01:08 PM+

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Posted: Mar 25, 2013 01:08 PM

How do you ladies feel...

How do you ladies feel about coworkers who are not invited but would like to attend your ceremony? I few people asked to attend the ceremony but I honestly don’t have an answer for them.

sandr325 Posted: Mar 25, 2013 01:17 PM+

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Posted: Mar 25, 2013 01:17 PM

Re: How do you ladies feel...

I think it is OK to invite people to the ceremony as long as it is not at the reception hall.

nella20005 Posted: Mar 25, 2013 02:19 PM+

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Posted: Mar 25, 2013 02:19 PM

How do you ladies feel...

It is

KC1031 Posted: Mar 25, 2013 04:22 PM+

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Posted: Mar 25, 2013 04:22 PM

How do you ladies feel...

I agree - I think it is tough to have them come to a ceremony and then tell them to leave before the party starts. It is usually so much easier when the ceremony takes place in a different location with a time gap in between...

2013Bride Posted: Mar 25, 2013 05:03 PM+

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Posted: Mar 25, 2013 05:03 PM

How do you ladies feel...

I plan to send out an email to my co-workers that I did not invite saying that I would have loved to have invited them, but due to us having large families it just wasn't feasible, but I'd love for them to attend the ceremony if they are available to that day. But I'm also getting married at a church...

jassy119 Posted: Mar 25, 2013 07:19 PM+

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Posted: Mar 25, 2013 07:19 PM

How do you ladies feel...

Unless you want them to attend then don't feel like you have to say yes because these ppl are inviting themselves! I think it is totally up to you.

cupcake8503 Posted: Mar 25, 2013 07:34 PM+

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Posted: Mar 25, 2013 07:34 PM

How do you ladies feel...

my coworkers just want to be invited. i told them i would if i have space (it would be a last minut invite) and they were ok with it. i think as long as they understand that they cannot stay then its fine.

RussianBride Posted: Mar 25, 2013 09:03 PM+

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Posted: Mar 25, 2013 09:03 PM

Re: How do you ladies feel...

I guess it's up to you - but I would feel uncomfortable having them come to the ceremony and then they have to leave when everyone gets called for cocktail hour - & then you have to stay with them to say good bye - just feels weird.
BUT...if it's a church wedding it wouldn't be too weird

nella20005 Posted: Mar 25, 2013 09:12 PM+

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Posted: Mar 25, 2013 09:12 PM

How do you ladies feel...

Thanks ladies...

KandE2013 Posted: Mar 25, 2013 10:37 PM+

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Posted: Mar 25, 2013 10:37 PM

How do you ladies feel...

I'm a teacher and it is very common for people to leave an invite in the main office so people can see when/where the ceremony is and they also know that they are NOT invited to the reception unless they get a personal invitation. I think it all depends on your work environment.