One of my bm whom I have known over 5 years is irking me. She can't keep her mouth shut about my wedding. I haven't even decided on my colors but show the bm's some dresses I would like to have. And, it's like she goes and puts out a bullentin of every detail of my wedding. How can I tell her gently or bluntly I no longer want you in my wedding.
SOTHISISLOVE53109
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This is a decsion that you have to be sure about because keep in mind there is 5 years of friendship behind you guys. My suggestion would be maybe to talk to her about whats irking you first and then if it still persists ask her to please step down as a bridesmaid. In how you wrote - I feel like it would be out of anger right now and you have to ask yourself is it worth possibly ending a friendship?
I would def. try to talk to her first and tell her how you feel and would appreciate it if she would keep your business especially about YOUR wedding to herself. It is a personal thing and I totally understand how you don't want the whole neighboorhood knowing your plans.
I would talk to her first...take a few deep breaths and get your thoughts together first.
HTH Good Luck and let us know how you make out
MzHopesAlot
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Ohhhh boy I have nooo idea how to do that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think Id say that you value the friendship and that if shes in the wedding you both may not be friends?
