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SillyBeans Posted: Apr 14, 2006 07:52 PM+
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how does everyone plan on

keeping bank accounts with FH after you are married? I've been asking around to see what other people are doing as far as joint or separate accounts. I still don't know what we should do.
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Goldi1021 Posted: Apr 14, 2006 07:55 PM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on

I have mine.
He has his.
We have ours.
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luvmypup Posted: Apr 14, 2006 07:56 PM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on

i agree!
i will always have my own accounts and so will he and they we will have a joint.
i dont want him to see what i spend on my clothes.lol
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DrBeLLaRoSe Posted: Apr 14, 2006 07:57 PM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on

we are going to have two joint accounts.... one for saving, one for checking :)
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sarahthegreat Posted: Apr 14, 2006 08:00 PM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on

2 accounts

1 savings
1 checking
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shellnroc Posted: Apr 14, 2006 08:00 PM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on


Posted by Goldi1021

I have mine.
He has his.
We have ours.




That's what we are doing!!
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SIBride06 Posted: Apr 14, 2006 08:26 PM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on


Posted by DrBeLLaRoSe

we are going to have two joint accounts.... one for saving, one for checking :)



Us too, and its been that way since we got engaged.
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SweetCin704 Posted: Apr 14, 2006 08:27 PM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on

We've had ours joined since we got engaged...a savings/checking and I also have a 3rd savings account (just b/c I always had that acct).

I handle all the bills though
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SummerBride06 Posted: Apr 14, 2006 09:01 PM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on

we'll have a joint checking and probably will merge our ING savings accounts. not sure if we'll have our own as well since 4 accounts seems excessive
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soontobemrsv Posted: Apr 14, 2006 09:07 PM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on


Posted by Goldi1021

I have mine.
He has his.
We have ours.



same here!!!
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scappy123 Posted: Apr 15, 2006 12:25 AM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on

His, Mine and Ours...One of each for us
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psf80 Posted: Apr 15, 2006 12:47 AM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on

When we moved in together we made all of our accounts joint... joint savings, joint checking, joint credit cards.
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CynthiaandJeff Posted: Apr 15, 2006 12:56 AM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on

We have joint credit cards, but we never use them.

We have a joint savings account, but I'm the only one that makes deposits and then we have our own accounts. I think we'll keep our own accounts. We're both used to doing things our way. We also have business accounts that will remain solely in our names (as it was when we were single). I don't see a need to make things joint as long as all the bills get paid.
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VadersBride2006 Posted: Apr 15, 2006 07:24 AM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on

we have joint checking and savings right now and plan to keep it that way.
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Preshy7 Posted: Apr 15, 2006 08:32 AM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on


Posted by Goldi1021

I have mine.
He has his.
We have ours.



same here

ours is used for mortgage, food and bills- we both put a certain amount in each month...what we usually do is if we over draw, we will split the over draw amount if it gets to that

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Preshy7 Posted: Apr 15, 2006 08:35 AM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on


Posted by CynthiaandJeff

We have joint credit cards, but we never use them.

We have a joint savings account, but I'm the only one that makes deposits and then we have our own accounts. I think we'll keep our own accounts. We're both used to doing things our way. We also have business accounts that will remain solely in our names (as it was when we were single). I don't see a need to make things joint as long as all the bills get paid.



i agree 100%
i dont see the point joiing avccounts if things work out OK as they were when you were dating..esp since we are both working and making almost he same amount of $
..i guess if i was dependant on him or vice versa we would need to join it, but we both make the ame amount of $ and this way i dont have to justify a fancy bag or a $30 lip gloss if i really want it...he never asks me about my shopping

eta- it just gives us one less thing to fight about too

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BKtoLI Posted: Apr 15, 2006 08:37 AM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on


Posted by soontobemrsv


Posted by Goldi1021

I have mine.
He has his.
We have ours.



same here!!!



Yep, us too
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angnick Posted: Apr 15, 2006 09:04 AM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on

Everything will be ours.. Right now we each still have our own checking -- only because we are too lazy right now to switch the direct deposits..
It will be done after the wedding.

FH and i have had joint savings and another joint checking for a while now -- before we were engaged..
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Klarabelle Posted: Apr 15, 2006 09:09 AM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on


Posted by Goldi1021

I have mine.
He has his.
We have ours.




Me too!
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MrsP2Be Posted: Apr 15, 2006 09:14 AM+
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Re: how does everyone plan on

Probably the same as it is now..we both have our own savings/checking and we have joint savings and checking.
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