He'd be bleeding on the floor if he spoke to my children like that!
Honestly forget talking to your sis. She knows he's an azz.
I'd avoid letting him around my kids and if i saw him being cruel i'd open a can of whoopazz on him. Maybe being embarassed will be a huge wake up call to him.
My hubby is ready to knock him out. He keeps lucking out and my hubby isn't around when he pulls this ****. I try to be calmer but today I wasn't and I think he noticed.
Invite me over. I'd go apesh*t on him. My youngest cousin was a handful. She wasnt rude or defiant, just hyper and easily sidetracked. Once i was in the playground w her and her sis and this woman screamed at her. Omg she was in tears. I told the woman she had 30 secs to leave before she lost a limb. Lol, yeah, you dont yell at other peoples kids.
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Eww he is a jerk and BTW who calls a little boy a jerk I would be annoyed
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No you are not wrong! That guy sounds like a real a$$hole!
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Do you live with your parents?
Keep him away from your kids, they don't need to be treated nasty by this a-hole. This guy is obviously controlling and I'm sure he's controlling your sister. I wouldn't hang around them at all with your kids. And anytime you have to be around, make sure your husband is there and that he handles anything that goes down like this. Maybe this creep will respond better to a man.
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I think you're right to be upset, but I think your parents are right too to stay out of it. She's an adult, although still young and stupid, she has to figure this out for herself. All you can do is tell her how you feel (I would also tell her you don't want your kids around this guy and tell her what your son said maybe it'll be a reality check) and then let it go. Tell her you don't want this guy to affect your relationship but you're not comfrotable with him around. If she doesn't listen to that, she's not going to listen at all until she realized what an *** this guy is on her own.
Just try to keep the kids away from him, but don't talk smack about him or your sister in front of them cause that's not cool either. Hopefully she'll get over this guy.
ITA. Hopefully your sister will come to her senses on her own.
