How involved is FH with this whole wedding process for everyone? I just feel like I'm doing everything, and then here and there he'll just chime in with an opinion. Any else feel the same way? I wish he would speak up more often...
Princesa
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Mines is the same way. Sometimes I find myself waiting on him to do certain things and then by the time you know it SO much time has passed and I end up doing it by myself. It's annoying sometimes, but then again he never really gives me his input when I plan parties until the day of the party when he wants to critique what I've done.
PROBM
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he pretends like he doesnt want to get involved but i know he secretly loves it
i do everything bc I dont want him to help.
Gracie821
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He wants to be involved it's just getting him to that point. Once he actually comes to the meetings with vendors, or to the store to register, or just looks online at ideas with me, than he can't be stopped lol, it's just getting him motivated to start.
Karsav7096
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FH is involved every step of the way and surprises me with vendor appointments. He even offered to plan the whole wedding after I complained about being overwhelmed with work, holidays and my daughter.
twoifbysea
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My FH works a million hours a week so doesn't have the time to be too involved. But he's very easy-going, basically likes all of my ideas and says I should pick whatever I want! When he DOES have a strong opinion about something (like the color scheme) I always go with what he says, just because I want it to be about both of us.
Funny -- he was adamant that the bridesmaid dresses were long, not tea length-- so weird and random but I was like 'okay sounds good to me!'
JennyAPH
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I can't complain.. FH has been great. He went with me to meet every vendor and gave his opinions etc.. he even helped pick out the BM dresses... and in the morning he usually will tell me what the countdown is before I even see it on here. lol So he is pretty much a toned down version of me in regards to the wedding
I can't complain.. FH has been great. He went with me to meet every vendor and gave his opinions etc.. he even helped pick out the BM dresses... and in the morning he usually will tell me what the countdown is before I even see it on here. lol So he is pretty much a toned down version of me in regards to the wedding
same with my FH...but I kind of wish he didnt care so much....I just want to do it all myself!
MrsGarcia
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I feel the same way... FH is a procrastinator so I think when it gets alittle closer he might start to help but as of now hes like 'whatever' LOL
Dani777
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He gives his opinion alot, but I just thought that he would be more involved then he already is. He keeps saying 'Whatever you want...Whatever makes you happy..' But I want some of HIS personal touch in it as well... Augh..MEN! lol
Babydoll21
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Fh is preety involved as well! I usually have all the ideas and he like 'yeah I like that!' So its pretty easy going. If I need him to make some phone calls he does it. He is really great!!
MnM182008
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My fh is pretty involved (wish he wasn't lol). No matter what its been he has been 'shocked' by what is costs. He makes me a bit crazy, I let him take over the dj, gives him something to do.
stefandken
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FH is really involved... we went to every single vendor appointment together and made all decisions together... he has been really good :)
bxbride
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Mine asked me a few times what I wanted him to do. I asked him to research some photographers.....that was about 2 months ago and I'm still waiting for the list! He just wants to get married, if it were up to him we would've had a ceremony already at city hall.
geegee827
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He's almost (but not quite) a groomzilla! He wants to come to every appointment (except flowers - he didn't care about those) and helps me make every decision. Sometimes I wish he would just leave me alone and let me do what I want!!!
Dani777
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Mine went to all the vendor appointments with me as well... it's just now that we are finalizing the little things, I just want him more involved...
MLAngelo
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He was very involved in the beginning. He and I picked the RH and band together, he came to ever photographer and videographer appointment, and was somewhat involved in the hotel choice. He bowed out of flowers because he didn't care.
Now that we have the house though he is less involved. But there are still decisions he wants to help make.
EmiNoa628
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My FH act neutral. He has bright ideas.. He won't let me get away with everything without an opinion. He wants it to be our day not just mine..
But he does help greatly!!
Novbride09
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I can't complain at all ...FH is honestly involved in everything and even makes appts for vendors or sends me links to things he thinks would be good for us etc...
CandB4604
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Honestly..i'm really in the driver's seat with everything and if he does something it's because I told him that I want/need his opinion on something, but he wouldn't take charge and say, 'Hey - we need to go book flowers, so I made an appointment and I'll grab our packet of flowers we like and figure out our budget, kay??' Yeah right. I'd love that, but he's just way too busy at work to do that right now. And also, he thinks that the wedding is so far away that we don't need to be doing much now, but I think it's better to do some things now while you do have the time...
