How involved is FH with this whole wedding process for everyone? I just feel like I'm doing everything, and then here and there he'll just chime in with an opinion. Any else feel the same way? I wish he would speak up more often...
2009wedding
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Fh is involved with everything dealing with the wedding. I love it! He has been very helpful and has been involved with everything since day one. He actually was more involved in the wedding planning at first then I was. Before we got engaged he made all the appointments for us to go look at RH's. He also did a lot of research on everything (vendors).
michelle1024
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FH didn't really have many opinions about planning or vendors, he wasn't really into having a big wedding, so he tells me it's about what i want. The only strong opinion he had was that he did NOT want a band, and that's basically it. He came with me to all the RHs and he comes to the photog appts, and helped pick a DJ. I guess he's there for moral support! lol which is fine by me!
ChrissyV729
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My FH is so so. Depends if his sports are playing or not. He's come to all my vendors and gives a quick opinion but for the most part decisions are mine. If it gets too much he starts complaining so i know when to leave him alone.
VeggieBride
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He's involved only with the food. He wanted to make sure everything was 100% vegetarian. I handle pretty much everything else but run it by him before i finalize anything.
flairforfashion
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Pretty involved. He is so good I have to say. He went to everything with me and booked the Photog and Limo by himself.
MEL0880
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He's pretty good.. he likes to come to check out vendors... I always ask him what he thinks and stuff (only not when playing xbox....) and he throws in ideas.. But if he has a dumb idea.. i just pretend he never said anything... and if its a good idea we go with it.. lol
missjones2007
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I take over...he just give me money
AugustBridein09
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I have a Groomzilla. He is too involved. LOL
JamieAnt06202009
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FH has been involved in everything but when people ask he says I just have to show up that day. Yea right every vendor, every choice he he has been involved in.
coldasice217
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Be careful what you wish for. I have groomzilla. On the one hand he drags his feet and doesn't commit to anything, doesn't want to do anything 'too quickly' or far in advance, fights me on going to appointments, etc....but then when I tell him eff it I'll do it by myself and you don't get a choice any more he starts whining. It's so frustrating at times.
christophersgirl
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yea mine is pretty involved, he won't let me make any of the decisions on my own other than my dress
llupario14
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Too involved!
megsher
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Mine is not involved at all! He says he is planning the honeymoon, but I can't stop researching things. I micromanage so much, that it's best this way!
allegracristina
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Mine's super involved and has opinions on everything!! JK but really, the most random thing he'll have a say in!! lol.
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Posted by stefandken
FH is really involved... we went to every single vendor appointment together and made all decisions together... he has been really good :)
Mine too! And I'm shocked by it. I couldn't believe he wanted to meet photographers with me!
GT143EA
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FH is involved just enough. Didnt go to eberything but went to a few things that i wanted him to go to...rh, limo,DJ, registry...I did the rest by myself or with my mom
dutchessev
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All my FH says is what ever U want is fine by me.
He says the only thing he wants is to have the cake be tres leche and everything else is up to me.
I like it that way.
LeeAnne
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same thing here. i have done about 80% of the planning so far by myself. he has taken an interest in the cake flavors and the GM gifts.
browneyes
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my fh is so not involved it was like pulling teeth to get him to go see photographers n stuff.. He didnt care about when it was, he didnt care about where it was or the colors ne of that stuff... It made me feel like he wasnt into getting married like he didn want to be with me buit when i sat down n talked to him about it he said i want to, it dosnt matter how or where we get married just as long as its to u... That made me feel better
Deeglasser
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he does a good job... i will keep him lol
however, there are things that he is responsible for and if they don't get done it's his problem... i.e. mailing his family's STD's and getting the addresses
