How Involved Is FH?

My FH is really involved. I do all of the vendor research & set up all the appointments, but we go & decide together. Then when it comes time to negotiate pricing I hand it over to him (I hate that stuff). Although he did research & book almost all of the 2nd half of our honeymoon (7days in St. Lucia). And for the most part he defers to what I want if it's important to me so I can't complain about him!

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Posted by twoifbysea

My FH works a million hours a week so doesn't have the time to be too involved. But he's very easy-going, basically likes all of my ideas and says I should pick whatever I want! When he DOES have a strong opinion about something (like the color scheme) I always go with what he says, just because I want it to be about both of us.

Funny -- he was adamant that the bridesmaid dresses were long, not tea length-- so weird and random but I was like 'okay sounds good to me!'

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yeah , some things shock me too, he was excited that the flower girl dresses were going to be the same color as the bm dresses instead of white....I didnt even think to ask his opinion on that one

omg soo happy to hear this..i thought i had the only groomzilla
he has an opinion on everyythingggg
want to see what bridesmaid's dresses i pick out
has come to every vendor
its good BUT like everyone else was saying...sometimes I just want to make the decisions
he doesnt like how a wedding is all about the bride..told him i'm going to get him a tiara lol