How is everyone saving money for their wedding?

We are finally strapping ourselves down....FH has 2 jobs, and I have one...will get a second job after the summer is over....we have opened a savings accounta nd each allocate a little bit a week into it...but I like theidea of splitting up my direct deposit into my checking and our savings....that way, can;t touch it at all! We are not going to get an ATM or touch it until we have something we need to pay....My parents are paying for the wedding, but we are paying for the HM, and some other things...gifts for attendants, etc....We are also emptying all our change into a big bottle every day..and when it comes time, we will roll it all up and deposit that too!:) We are very very bad in saving money, but the wy we look at it is we do not want to go on a so-so honeymoon and wish we din;t buy this or that before, and taht works!