How long are you going to wait after the wedding to try to get pregnant?

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We already have a daughter together that will be two in July! She grew up sooooooo fast! That is one of the reasons I want to wait a little while to have a wedding. I want Tay to be a part of the wedding so I think I am going to set the date for two years out - this way she will be around 4 and able to be patient and pay attention. Right now I think she would stand quietly during the ceremony for about five seconds before she started a ruckus, lol.

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We were friends 2 years before we dated for 8 years through High School and college. Then 1.5 years engaged before wedding. I think I would like to get pregnant before I reach 35.

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1 day!!!!!! just kidding! Probably a few months..only because I've been bugging FH about a baby for some time now. He on the other hand wants to wait some time...like years !!!!! That is crazy!!! I don't worry, he'll fall in the trap! Plus I hear the air in Hawaii is good for baby making, you'll come back pregnant. Let's see what happens....

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Haven't a clue. It's all gonna depend on when we can afford it....we want a house first, and I want to get my tenure first...so it probably won't be until another 2-3 years at least...but who knows? No rush!

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we plan on waiting for atleast 2 - 3 years, or is that just my plan, i think if it were up to him, I'd have to get a maternity wedding gown.

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Posted by Kelly1015

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Posted by Kara and Todd

We've known each other just over a year and a half (though exclusively dating only maybe about a yaer). We'll be together a little less than 2 years when we get married (and engaged nine and a half months). But, hey, when you know, you know.

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i agree..when you know you know!! my fiance and i have been dating for 8 months, engaged for 1 month so far...but not getting married for two years!!

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Aww, CONGRATULATIONS!!

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we have been together 7 years and living together for 6 .. so when it happens it happens .. hopefully the sooner the better

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I just had to answer this question to give you gals a giggle. I wanted to wait a year or so before we got pregnant but we always thought we were going to have problems getting preggo for certan reasons....Well FH and I were supposed to be getting married in September....I found out last week that I'm 10 weeks preggo so we're moving it up to June 15th...just doing something simple and nice for close friends and family. It's funny how plans can change but we're excited! I'm working on trying to find a new dress that will actually fit, a singer and photographer all in 6 weeks...ughhhh. BTW, we've been together for almost 4 years, living together for 3 years and we got engaged in September of 2006.

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We are going to wait 1 year

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not sure--we both agreed not right away but I hope by the end of the first year.....That would be perfect.

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We will begin trying the night odf the wedding. When God blesses us with a baby, we will be ready

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i'm thinking 2 years about

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me and FH were high school sweethearts. ..we broke up tho in 10th grade, and stopped talking..we ran into eachother 3 yrs later and started dating. 2 months later we were engaged in 2004. we just had our first baby august of 06. but i dont want another child until my daughter is about 3 yrs old or 4.

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we are starting right away like i said in my other post ( 2 hours after the wedding lol) Because 1 we have been together 7 years now..8 on our wedding day. Also..Steve and I are 12 years apart. I want to have our first child before he is 40!!! lol

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2 yrs

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Posted by MPAS

For us maybe 3-4 years after we are married. I know I will be in my 30's YIKES!!! but I want to enjoy my marriage a little before I have kids

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I am thinking the same

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probably about 5 years. Actually, it's kind of strange because he seems to want kids right away, but I can def. wait a while before taking on that kind of responsibility!

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Posted by Bride4Mike07

1 day!!!!!! just kidding! Probably a few months..only because I've been bugging FH about a baby for some time now. He on the other hand wants to wait some time...like years !!!!! That is crazy!!! I don't worry, he'll fall in the trap! Plus I hear the air in Hawaii is good for baby making, you'll come back pregnant. Let's see what happens....

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If the air is good in Hawaii for babymaking I better watch out, because we're not planning to have kids right away!! We need to save for a house first, so I'd say probably 2-4 years is how long we're planning to wait for kids!!!

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