Re: How many dates did you and your SO go on before you became an item??

Things are never that clear cut with me.
We had all the same friends so we knew we weren't seeing other people--it would have been hard to keep that secret.

We kissed in a bar ona Friday night, then he came home with me & then we went for breakfast with other people Saturday moring, then we went out on I guess our first real date Thursday, and went out with friends Friday & then he came back to my apt for the whole weekend. I guess it was pretty definite then, but about a week later I asked him in some vague way if we were a couple & he seemed offended that I would think we weren't.

Re: How many dates did you and your SO go on before you became an item??

I think the first date. We never did have 'the talk' about where we stood. We just knew.

Re: How many dates did you and your SO go on before you became an item??

We met the night before Thanksgiving, he called me at 9AM Thanksgiving morning to ask me out to dinner the night after Thanksgiving (almost exactly 4 years ago!). From the first date on we knew we were exclusive--we talked on the phone so much and emailed all day long there would have been no time for anyone else! We would talk on the phone for 5 hours at a shot...

Re: How many dates did you and your SO go on before you became an item??

I met him through friends 4 months before we started dating (he tried through out the 4 months - I kept saying no). Then after about 2 of the 4 months we became best friends- then finally one day I said - what am I doing - this is the guy I was looking for my whole life. I knew at that moment - I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him.

Re: How many dates did you and your SO go on before you became an item??

we went on dates for about 6 months before we became bf/gf.. we were pretty much bf/gf but he was too chicken sh** to officially ask me so i just kept saying we were just friends.

Re: How many dates did you and your SO go on before you became an item??

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Posted by tracyg

I think the first date. We never did have 'the talk' about where we stood. We just knew.

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Same here!

Re: How many dates did you and your SO go on before you became an item??

we didn't really date, we worked together and alwasy hanged out with my friends.

Re: How many dates did you and your SO go on before you became an item??

these are such cute stories!!!!!!

Re: How many dates did you and your SO go on before you became an item??

My Dh and I were set up on a blinddate we went to starbucks and we still go there and have our latte!