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How many days to take off??

Kpiligra Posted:

How many days to take off??

Just a random thought... I'm getting married on a Saturday. Do you think it's too much to take off on the Thursday and Friday before the wedding and on the Monday? I thought abt going to work on Thursday, but By the time I come home get nails done, get ready, and get bridal party gifts ready, etc I'll be late to my own rehearsal lol. I'm a teacher so I hope my principal doesn't think that's too much but I feel like I need it! Well Monday maybe not lol but I feel like the day after the wedding will be busy with family still in town and my mom is gonna do a big lunch. So Monday would be nice to just relax and do nothing w my fh. Hmmm thoughts??

Dani10 Posted:

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i think that sounds reasonable!

xBudgetBridex Posted:

How many days to take off??

I'm getting married on a Friday and plan on taking weds and thurs.

Jott1015 Posted:

How many days to take off??

I am getting married the day after a Holiday (New Years) so I will probably also take off NYE

Djswedding Posted:

How many days to take off??

If you are already thinking you need those days... TAKE THEM!!! It's your wedding you want to be able to enjoy time getting everything ready and not be stressed running around. You'll regret if you don't. My friend got married on a Saturday and only took Friday off, nightmare rushing everything.

xoxlilqtexox1 Posted:

How many days to take off??

I also think it's reasonable. You want to enjoy the time and not be stressed trying to squeeze last minute things in. It's once in a lifetime.. Your job will understand I'm sure.

vc2014 Posted:

How many days to take off??

If you have personal days definitely take off :) I wish I could!
haw4 Posted:

How many days to take off??

I think it sounds perfectly reasonable! I would just double check with your principal/school administration if you need documentation or how to put in for your days. I know for me, we only get 2 personal days a school year, and if you are out 3 or more school days in a row, you need a doctors note, unless you received prior permission from the principal.

Kroedel87 Posted:

How many days to take off??

For almost any other industry, I'd say it's perfectly reasonable. But honestly, in a school this usually wouldn't fly. I think you can do Thursday and Friday, but I wouldn't push it with Monday. Just keep telling yourself how close you are to Christmas break!

Jsabbatino Posted:

How many days to take off??

I think that sounds reasonable. We are getting married the day after Thanksgiving so I know I will be off the day before and my office tends to close or let off early that Wednesday. Usually it's a pretty slow week so I plan on asking to work from home Monday ans Tuesday as well

Mrs-to-Be Posted:

How many days to take off??

sounds absolutely reasonable - i'll be doing the same thing

Kimberley2015 Posted:

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Hahahaha! I am getting married the day after you. We are off New Year's Day and I am taking off that Friday as well as my girls and then off the following week for the honeymoon. That should be enough time for you and I don't see why your boss should give you a hard time. It is for your wedding.

Alimm729 Posted:

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Posted by Kroedel87

For almost any other industry, I'd say it's perfectly reasonable. But honestly, in a school this usually wouldn't fly. I think you can do Thursday and Friday, but I wouldn't push it with Monday. Just keep telling yourself how close you are to Christmas break!



This. Unfortunately that's the reality with teaching. And you'll be so close to Christmas break!
Kpiligra Posted:

How many days to take off??

I'll take a day unpaid if I have to! Lol thanks for the advice girls!

katielynn Posted:

How many days to take off??

I'm getting married on a saturday and I took off the Thursday through the next Wednesday. We're taking a mini-moon the sunday-wednesday which is why I went a little longer :)

ETA: I just realized we're getting married the same day!
mattandjess2013 Posted:

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Posted by Alimm729


Posted by Kroedel87

For almost any other industry, I'd say it's perfectly reasonable. But honestly, in a school this usually wouldn't fly. I think you can do Thursday and Friday, but I wouldn't push it with Monday. Just keep telling yourself how close you are to Christmas break!



This. Unfortunately that's the reality with teaching. And you'll be so close to Christmas break!



I'm a teacher and got married the Sunday of Columbus day weekend. I took off Friday & Tuesday (since we had Monday off). Honestly I think it's reasonable, and if you have the days, why not. If you aren't sure, talk to your principal & explain the situation.
Soon2BeMrsMango Posted:

How many days to take off??

I'm getting married on a friday. I'm taking a half day tues, then wed & thurs off

Mrs Posted:

How many days to take off??

Do what you can allot for. Enjoy

DebOst Posted:

Re: How many days to take off??


Posted by Alimm729


Posted by Kroedel87

For almost any other industry, I'd say it's perfectly reasonable. But honestly, in a school this usually wouldn't fly. I think you can do Thursday and Friday, but I wouldn't push it with Monday. Just keep telling yourself how close you are to Christmas break!



This. Unfortunately that's the reality with teaching. And you'll be so close to Christmas break!



Totally agree... Sorry
KTF11 Posted:

How many days to take off??

We are getting married on a Saturday and I was hoping to take off Thursday, Friday and Monday. Thursday and Friday will be for getting last minute things settled, rehearsals, etc. Monday I'd like to have off because we have so many OOT guests and I'd like to spend time with them before they head back. I don't think this is unreasonable.

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