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angel1219eyez Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:20 AM+
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how many ppl in bridal party?

How many ppl do u think is the norm for a briday party....FH threw out like 9 guys that he wants to have in the party....which means its gunna be 9 guys 9 girls a flower girl ring bearer and my brother as a jr groomsman

thats 21 ppl in our bridal party and its not like we are getting married at a nice big church ....we are getting married at our RH so i kinda felt like its to much and there isnt gunna be enough room in the ceremony for everyone to stand...we got into an argument about it last night and he thinks that its not to many

how many are u all havin if your havin one
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DnT2010 Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:21 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?

we're having 6 girls and 6 guys and a junior bridesmaid and a ring bearer. i dont think theres any 'normal' sized bridal party, its what works best for you and FH
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lori7570 Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:22 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?

We're having 7 girls 6 guys, 2 rb and 2 fg
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20mrsc10 Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:23 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?

were having 4 girls 4 guys..no rb or fg
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MrsC2010 Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:23 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?

we have 9 girls and 9 guys...no fg or rb so we have 18 total.

we are also getting married at the RH. yes its a lot but we wanted to have our family and close friends as part of the wedding.

plus vendors i have met with have told me yes its a lot but they have seen wedding parties with a lot more....like parties with 48 ppl total
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Iluvpoodles Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:23 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?

MH and 2 bridesmaids..that's if I have a party and FH will have BM and 3 groomsman so the number will be uneven. Possibly a flower girl too.
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Jna2010 Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:24 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?

i have 7 girls fh is having 5 - 7 guys (he still wont give me a count lol), 1 rb, 1 fg
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angel1219eyez Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:25 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?


Posted by MrsC2010

we have 9 girls and 9 guys...no fg or rb so we have 18 total.

we are also getting married at the RH. yes its a lot but we wanted to have our family and close friends as part of the wedding.

plus vendors i have met with have told me yes its a lot but they have seen wedding parties with a lot more....like parties with 48 ppl total



omg...i dnt know what i would do if it was a party of 48 ppl
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christine2010 Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:26 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?

we are having 3 bridesmaids, 1 MOH, 1 best man, 4 groomsmen, 2 flower girls, 1 ring boy & my SIL will be escorting the flower girls down the aisle. so in total that's 13 people.
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SummerBride10 Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:26 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?

We're having 6 BMs, 6 GMs, and 3 FG's...so there will be 15 people in the bridal party.

I don't think there is any normal number. Some people have more, some have less- it all depends on who you MUST have in your BP.
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KatieG2010 Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:27 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?

8 girls
13 boys (yea fh is kind of popular)
no rb
no fg
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Sandradv121 Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:28 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?

Ok well I have 11 guys including 2 bestmen, a ring bearer, and jr. groomsman, and I have 8 bridemaids including my MOH, jr bm and flower girl. Its uneven, but I don't care. So we have to double up on a couple of them. FH wanted all his friends and I couldn't say no...
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MrsC2010 Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:29 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?


Posted by angel1219eyez


Posted by MrsC2010

we have 9 girls and 9 guys...no fg or rb so we have 18 total.

we are also getting married at the RH. yes its a lot but we wanted to have our family and close friends as part of the wedding.

plus vendors i have met with have told me yes its a lot but they have seen wedding parties with a lot more....like parties with 48 ppl total



omg...i dnt know what i would do if it was a party of 48 ppl




i know its like why not just have everyone at your wedding be in the wedding party
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rocketsummer17 Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:38 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?

our bp went from 6 bm's 1 fg and 4 gm's to 3 bm's 4 gm's and 1 fg...

I dont think there is a certain number you have to have...its all based on how much you can afford and what you feel comfortable with...
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MarjorieFrank Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:38 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?

1 Matron of Honor
1 Best Man
4-5 Bridesmaids (Still trying to decide if I should pick one or not lol)
3-4 Groomsmen

NO FG or RB


From the weddings I've attended and seen pictures of, there were typically 5-6 BMs and GMs, if that helps you out. I don't think there is a norm or a limit, do whatever you want!
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MarjorieFrank Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:39 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?


Posted by rocketsummer17
I dont think there is a certain number you have to have...its all based on how much you can afford and what you feel comfortable with...



Agreed. I contemplated having 8 or 9 bridesmaids but I didn't want to put too much cost into that aspect of the wedding.
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T E R I Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:40 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?

4 girls and 3 guys, no rb or fg
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deanna225 Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:40 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?

we have 6 girls and 7 guys and 2 fgs and 1 rb
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RackyMo21 Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:50 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?


Posted by angel1219eyez

How many ppl do u think is the norm for a briday party....FH threw out like 9 guys that he wants to have in the party....which means its gunna be 9 guys 9 girls a flower girl ring bearer and my brother as a jr groomsman

thats 21 ppl in our bridal party and its not like we are getting married at a nice big church ....we are getting married at our RH so i kinda felt like its to much and there isnt gunna be enough room in the ceremony for everyone to stand...we got into an argument about it last night and he thinks that its not to many

how many are u all havin if your havin one



i have 28 people in my bridal party. me and fh happen to have big families. i think its personal preference. if its something that reallly bothers you i would talk it over.

i look at it this way. if your concern is what other people are going to say. dont make it a concern EVERYONE has something to say you cant make everyone happy. i learned that the hard way.
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Rosalind_75 Posted: Apr 08, 2009 09:50 AM+
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Re: how many ppl in bridal party?

moh bm
3bm 3gm
1 rb
2fg

perfect
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