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how much is appropriate?

mbm750 Posted:

how much is appropriate?

my brother's wedding is in chicago this weekend (that's where we're from), and he and his fh didn't register because they want cash, which is fine by me, but i have no idea what's an appropriate amount to give... please help. he's my brother, so i don't want to be cheap, but i don't even have a gauge for this. every wedding i've been to was while i was in school and there were registries... i feel completely lost without a registry! help!

stephanief Posted:

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I gave my sister $500 ( I was her MOH)

Summer05 Posted:

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DH sibling gave us $300

enjft Posted:

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I would do 500

hmpena Posted:

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I would think $300 and up is appropriate. I am going to be my sister's MOH and I plan on giving more. However, if I was in a bad place financially, I think $300 is appropriate.

suven Posted:

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$300-$500 for a sibling

nferrandi Posted:

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I'm guessing things are a little different in Chicago, but for a NY wedding I would say around $500 for a sibling.

ETS- DH's brother gave us $800 (whic we gave back a few months later for his wedding) and his sister gave us $500.
jilmadison Posted:

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Posted by suven

$300-$500 for a sibling



I agree
DayBeforeThanksgiving Posted:

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Yup, anywhere upwards of $300 is good.

MrsStefan Posted:

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I think between 400-500. I gave my best friend (who is like my sister) 400 for her wedding. I think that is appropriate

kaklesmay Posted:

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I gave my sister $500 also (MOH)

messipaw Posted:

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$300-$500

LFitzy79 Posted:

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Posted by stephanief

I gave my sister $500 ( I was her MOH)




I gave my sister $500 as well, and I was the MOH....
Fireworks Bride Posted:

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I bought there cutlery set and a box to put it in which was about $500

PeterNChris Posted:

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I am telling my siblings not to give me anything. Their gift will and has been helping out with everything. They are a great help and I wil not accept a gift.

J&D 09/16 Posted:

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I think it depends on you're particular situation. When I was my older sister's MOH I gave her about $100, but I was in school and therefore very poor. My other sister got married this summer and we bought her about 500 dollars worth of china (I'm no longer a full-time student).

mbm750 Posted:

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$500 is what we were thinking but we weren't sure if that was enough, too much... we just had no idea at all. Thank you ladies!!! As always, you've been very helpful!!!

Tracy06 Posted:

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I gave my sister $ 300.00

Soon2BeMrsS Posted:

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we typically give $400, unless we're in the bp or close w/ the or
OctoberBride05 Posted:

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Brother is definently $450++ if you can afford it.

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