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HOW MUCH IS EVERYONE PAYING TO GET MARRIED IN CHURCH!

Original post by ammie1016

To be honest I have officially lost it. Yesterday I get something in the mail from the church that we are going to be getting married in. They told me that it would be $775 with the organist and all that. Then in the mail I get the days for the PreCana. WOW an additional $75 that isn't included in the original price. I swear if It wasn't for my parents I would have gotten married in the reception hall. :(

FutureMrsPD Posted:

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my church didnt say anything about a price yet...

PEPE10 Posted:

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i think mine is 600 including music and another 70 for pre-cana

angl2001 Posted:

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whatever we want :) they dont have a set ammount...they dont really charge they actually take a donation! for members anyway.........
its a Lutheran Church
Saram Posted:

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i am paying $1100 total...ugh some donation huh?

LCnAC Posted:

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i think its sad that the church expects you to pay that much money...i mean marriage is one of the sacraments right? There shouldnt be a 'fee' and they should just ask you to give a donation that you can afford.

futuremrsfab Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsPD

my church didnt say anything about a price yet...



mine either- which makes me more nervous! we paid like $200 for precana- so I can only imagine- but michelle is right- it is a write-off!
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by ammie1016

Okay wow, now I don't feel that bad.

My brother got married in our church in Queens where we grew up. HUGE CHurch and he paid with the singer, orgainist and everything. $550.

But because my reception is out in Long Island I wanted to stay with in the vicinity. Oh well.

THANKS LADIES



my church is in queens and im paying about $1100, although a little less bc that included pre-cana but the $300 weekend retreat but instead we did just the 2 days in the church for $175, so lets just say $1000 and this includes the donation also
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Celest76

Mines is $600 which includes music.
Oh yeah & $75 for precana, but they threw a party for us afterwards plus gave us a new bible so to be honest they spent the moment right back on us. They were so sweet. I love my church

It would have been just as expensive to get married in the hall. Plus a church ceremony donation is tax deductible so in the long run it will be cheaper than the reception hall.



i was about to ask this, dont they also charge to get married at the RH? if so how much? and thats not including the officiant fee you would have to pay somebody else aside from the fee to use the rh for your ceremony
SugaBeans Posted:

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WAY TOO MUCH!!!! about $800 i think.

angl2001 Posted:

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i have seen from $400-$1000 to get married at the RH...mine charges 500
then on top of that u need an officent
Wifeynella Posted:

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we are actually not paying anything. both of us are very active in the church so they waved all fees.

ammie1016 Posted:

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Posted by tinabella7780

we are actually not paying anything. both of us are very active in the church so they waved all fees.



I knew Me and FH should have went to church more or if at all.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by angl2001

i have seen from $400-$1000 to get married at the RH...mine charges 500
then on top of that u need an officent



so kinda the same thing then basically
angl2001 Posted:

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yeah

irishsweetheart Posted:

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$400 plus the $75 for pre cana and a tip for the organist (that's my decision though - I wasn't told to tip him but I will)

and I would pay more than that if I had to because in comparison to what we're spending on the hall that $400 or $800 or even $1k is nothing for what is THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF THE DAY

and I also have no problem giving it to the church because at least in my parish I KNOW they need the money.
Celest Posted:

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Posted by Celest76

Mines is $600 which includes music.
Oh yeah & $75 for precana, but they threw a party for us afterwards plus gave us a new bible so to be honest they spent the moment right back on us. They were so sweet. I love my church

It would have been just as expensive to get married in the hall. Plus a church ceremony donation is tax deductible so in the long run it will be cheaper than the reception hall.



i was about to ask this, dont they also charge to get married at the RH? if so how much? and thats not including the officiant fee you would have to pay somebody else aside from the fee to use the rh for your ceremony



JT charges to do the ceremony (they were going to drop the price to $600 for the ceremony) . Plus I would have had to find an officiant & it is only for a half hour anyway. So coordinating that all, plus it isn't a write off made me go against it. Plus to be honest my family wanted the church.

If I did the reception hall ceremony it may be easier the day of for me (no limos in between. time to spare etc). , it would be more stressful before hand (cost, looking for Officiant)
lkdrnw Posted:

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I think 780--which includes the organist
Plus his mother has to pay her yearly dues of like 250, so that we can get married there---nuts
Celest Posted:

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I wonder how much officiant fees are (if you did it at a hall)?

Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Celest76


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Posted by Celest76

Mines is $600 which includes music.
Oh yeah & $75 for precana, but they threw a party for us afterwards plus gave us a new bible so to be honest they spent the moment right back on us. They were so sweet. I love my church

It would have been just as expensive to get married in the hall. Plus a church ceremony donation is tax deductible so in the long run it will be cheaper than the reception hall.



i was about to ask this, dont they also charge to get married at the RH? if so how much? and thats not including the officiant fee you would have to pay somebody else aside from the fee to use the rh for your ceremony



JT charges to do the ceremony (they were going to drop the price to $600 for the ceremony) . Plus I would have had to find an officiant & it is only for a half hour anyway. So coordinating that all, plus it isn't a write off made me go against it. Plus to be honest my family wanted the church.

If I did the reception hall ceremony it may be easier the day of for me (no limos in between. time to spare etc). , it would be more stressful before hand (cost, looking for Officiant)



yeah i remember them telling us the price and i thought it was about $500-600, but we knew we were gonna get married at the church so didnt pay too much attention. So yeah plus the officiant fees it can be even more expensive than the church

plus in the end your money is being donated to a church so i have no problem with that.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Celest76

I wonder how much officiant fees are (if you did it at a hall)?



a couple hundred bucks

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