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how well do u take criticism?
MuchInLuvMichi Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:34 PM+
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how well do u take criticism?

me, not so well...some pple r cruel and should keep there mouthes shut...depends on the subject at hand i suppose
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kbeana24 Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:40 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?

If I am trying really hard to do something well but get criticized, I fall apart. It also depends how the critizism is worded.
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t Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:42 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?

also, depends how it is worded for me. I get into a funk if it puts me down.
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Kriss2c Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:45 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?

Usually, I say ok, I will try to work on that and I go somewhere to cry my eyes out.
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Julestrd Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:45 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?

When I am given criticism I get very defensive a lot of the times. Sometimes it takes everything in my power to just bite my tongue and say it's all to help you....well most of the time it is.
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RedHead Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:47 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?

pretty good...unless someone is being overtly mean or rude
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nferrandi Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:49 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?

I don't take it so well at the time, but if I think about it and I know that the criticism is right, I will work on changing or doing something different/better next time.
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don424 Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:55 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?


Posted by oct.2004bride

pretty good...unless someone is being overtly mean or rude




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boosh78201 Posted: Oct 29, 2004 01:00 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?

I try to take it well, doesnt always go that way though.
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brideinapril Posted: Oct 29, 2004 01:01 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?


Posted by Kriss2c

Usually, I say ok, I will try to work on that and I go somewhere to cry my eyes out.



Me too, and to be honest sometimes I don't make it to that somewhere and cry my eyes out right there!!!
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FeliciaDA Posted: Oct 29, 2004 01:37 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?

HEY ...... are you CRITICIZING me by posting this thread???????







No, I wish I were better at handling it... but overall I do not take critisicm well. I take it faaaaaaaaaar too personally sometimes (that is my sensitive nature coming into play )
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Maribelle7777 Posted: Oct 29, 2004 01:42 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?

Depends on how the criticism is given.

If nicely then I'm ok with it. I know I'm not perfect.

But if someone embarasses me in public or is using insults under the guise of 'critcism' then no I don't take it well.
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heidla Posted: Oct 29, 2004 01:42 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?

I think I take it well as long as it is constructive. If it is just said to be cruel then I will get defensive.
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lvdolphins Posted: Oct 29, 2004 05:41 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?

I was working on something @ work, and kept getting it back in my mail box Finally today I sat, thought, handed in and my supervisor came in and was like 'Yes, this is what I mean'. I do get angry for a few mins. and then just keep trying till I get it right!!
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dengal Posted: Oct 29, 2004 05:54 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?

I welcome criticism - however, when it's negative, you often have to consider the source.
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Jax430 Posted: Oct 29, 2004 05:55 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?

I'm very sensitive, so if it's in a professional sense, I usually try to hold back tears while I smile and nod...then I go somewhere and cry!

If my family is giving the criticism, then i'm likely to get defensive and argue..and cry!
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mattnnic327 Posted: Oct 29, 2004 06:15 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?

Don't really think about if I think people are talking about me.. it's them that have no lives... not me... so I guess I take it okay... I don;t even acknowledge it.. waste of my time
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DjPiLL Posted: Oct 29, 2004 06:48 PM+
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Re: how well do u take criticism?

Nobody would dare criticize the classless king anyways... so I have nothing to worry bout.
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