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how well do u take criticism?
MuchInLuvMichi
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:34 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:34 PM
how well do u take criticism?
me, not so well...some pple r cruel and should keep there mouthes shut...depends on the subject at hand i suppose
kbeana24
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:40 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:40 PM
Re: how well do u take criticism?
If I am trying really hard to do something well but get criticized, I fall apart. It also depends how the critizism is worded.
t
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:42 PM+
Re: how well do u take criticism?
also, depends how it is worded for me. I get into a funk if it puts me down.
Kriss2c
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:45 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:45 PM
Re: how well do u take criticism?
Usually, I say ok, I will try to work on that and I go somewhere to cry my eyes out.
Julestrd
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:45 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:45 PM
Re: how well do u take criticism?
When I am given criticism I get very defensive a lot of the times. Sometimes it takes everything in my power to just bite my tongue and say it's all to help you....well most of the time it is.
RedHead
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:47 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:47 PM
Re: how well do u take criticism?
pretty good...unless someone is being overtly mean or rude
nferrandi
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:49 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:49 PM
Re: how well do u take criticism?
I don't take it so well at the time, but if I think about it and I know that the criticism is right, I will work on changing or doing something different/better next time.
don424
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:55 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 12:55 PM
Re: how well do u take criticism?
Posted by oct.2004bride
pretty good...unless someone is being overtly mean or rude
boosh78201
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 01:00 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 01:00 PM
Re: how well do u take criticism?
I try to take it well, doesnt always go that way though.
brideinapril
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 01:01 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 01:01 PM
Re: how well do u take criticism?
Posted by Kriss2cUsually, I say ok, I will try to work on that and I go somewhere to cry my eyes out.
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Me too, and to be honest sometimes I don't make it to that somewhere and cry my eyes out right there!!!
FeliciaDA
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 01:37 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 01:37 PM
Re: how well do u take criticism?
HEY ...... are you CRITICIZING me by posting this thread???????
No, I wish I were better at handling it... but overall I do not take critisicm well.
I take it faaaaaaaaaar too personally sometimes (that is my sensitive nature coming into play
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Maribelle7777
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 01:42 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 01:42 PM
Re: how well do u take criticism?
Depends on how the criticism is given.If nicely then I'm ok with it. I know I'm not perfect.
But if someone embarasses me in public or is using insults under the guise of 'critcism' then no I don't take it well.
heidla
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 01:42 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 01:42 PM
Re: how well do u take criticism?
I think I take it well as long as it is constructive. If it is just said to be cruel then I will get defensive.
lvdolphins
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 05:41 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 05:41 PM
Re: how well do u take criticism?
I was working on something @ work, and kept getting it back in my mail box
Finally today I sat, thought, handed in and my supervisor came in and was like 'Yes, this is what I mean'. I do get angry for a few mins. and then just keep trying till I get it right!!
dengal
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 05:54 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 05:54 PM
Re: how well do u take criticism?
I welcome criticism - however, when it's negative, you often have to consider the source.
Jax430
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 05:55 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 05:55 PM
Re: how well do u take criticism?
I'm very sensitive, so if it's in a professional sense, I usually try to hold back tears while I smile and nod...then I go somewhere and cry!If my family is giving the criticism, then i'm likely to get defensive and argue..and cry!
mattnnic327
Posted: Oct 29, 2004 06:15 PM+

Posted: Oct 29, 2004 06:15 PM
Re: how well do u take criticism?
Don't really think about if I think people are talking about me.. it's them that have no lives... not me... so I guess I take it okay... I don;t even acknowledge it.. waste of my time
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