I <3 My vendors.....Kind of long

I was up all night wondering if I should call my vendors and let them know what happened with my cousin and her boyfriend (Killed in a motorcycle accident Thursday night) so that they know what to expect. Theres a good chance she will be buried next friday (day before the wedding) or even the day OF the wedding, so I wasn't sure if I should tell them so that incase people are just not in the mood to dance or whatever, that they understand why.

So i decided to call. So far I have only spoken with the church and the DJ and they have been amazing. I left a msg for TP but I haven't heard back from him yet (I called 5 mins ago, he prob had a wedding last night).

Everyone has been so amazing and so supportive. I am using a lot of the same vendors my sister used, and 1 month before my sister got married, my grandfather passed away. They have all been so great to work with and so understanding and supportive of my entire family.

I just hope that somehow this can still be a happy day in light of everything going on right now. My family is devistated and I don't know what I can do to help people get through this.