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I am hurt..UPDATED 9/14-kinda long

Original post by Sweetness

Since my MOH dropped out, who wasn't doing much of anything anyways, no one took the iniative to pick up the slack. I was going to plan my own bachelorette party, but now no one wants to do anything.
Anyways, I am hurt by their lack of care for my feelings. Now I am not doing anything, while FH goes out with his friends.

I don't know if I should inform them of my disappointment or just let it go...

In need of hugs and support
Michele

Update:
Thank you GIRLS for all your support, hugs and even wanted to take me out on Oct 2nd! I would so be down for a GTG.
My parents are the sweetest, most thoughtful, loving, most awesome people. They got wind of the situation and my dad planned a whole weekend thing for me! I always wanted to eat at one of the restaurants at the Plaza hotel. As little girl, even up to last Christmas, we go into the city to see the tree, walk around while freezing our butts off. I would always stop at the Plaza in sheer amazement of the beauty, architecture and grace of that hotel and pictured myself walking around like one the rich elites. It was something I always wanted to do, but never thought I could. Some people may think this is corny, and that why am i spending time with my parents a week before my wedding-----------------
WELL, my father made reservations at the the OAK room, the steakhouse that just let allowed women in the mid 70s, the Vanderbilts, among other stars, like Hemingway and Fitzgerald used to go there. He even booked a room!! He is trying to get play tickets (I love to see Plays) or find an awesome lounge where we can sip wine and smoke cigars. After breakfast at the Plaza, we are taking a limo back to LI.
I cannot believe they surprised me with this, I am floored. At least someone in my family wants to do something nice for me!!
I truly believe that there is no such thing 'as a last night out as a single woman' cause i haven't been single in 6 years. I see this night as a relaxing unwinding, out of this world never thought it would happen, lovely evening spent with the 2 people who gave me life, taught me to be independent, strong, and to not let life knock me down. I am honored to be spending that time with my parents and enjoying my last weekend with their last name.
JenniferLee111204 Posted:

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just let us know when you want to go out -we'll be there!



Dont worry - BM are just there to give you aggrivation!!

-Jennifer
soon2bmrs2004 Posted:

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If I was you I would treat myself to a massage and get a manicure and pedicure and spend a whole day on you!
dbcrosby Posted:

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hi michelle, i feel so bad. if you need anything, dont hesistate to call!!!

azoodie Posted:

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that is AWFUL!!! what do these people have no feelings at all??????????????? grrr this makes me angry!!!

i'm sorry you're going through this...
Maribelle7777 Posted:

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I kinda had the same problem but at least my sister did finally pick up the slack about the bachelorette party. I kinda had to start asking people myself before she got the hint. I would say we did it together and that's fine.

But still your friends are busy and that's one thing but they should realize that they should do something for you....you could help.....but if not.....I would call some girlfriends and say 'listen lets go out and dance!!!!' I'm sure there's got to be a few that would be into it and when they realize your BM's are not being very helpful maybe they will pitch in instead!!

JLP Posted:

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Well, let's plan a GTG for October 2nd. You should NOT be sitting at home. I'm sure there are plenty of us who could use a night out with the girls.

My FI is away that weekend. I'll be alone too. Let's not be alone together. I'm serious. FM me if you're interested.
Sweetness Posted:

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JLP- you are the sweetest, so very kind of you!!

dm24angel Posted:

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HAVE agreat time in the City..Sounds like a dream...Cant wait to hear about it!!!!

I would love to do all those things..your not corny at all..it sounds wonderful!
slwh2005 Posted:

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You ar very lucky to have such great parents. It sounds like it's going to be an incredible weekend. Enjoy it!!!

JimmysBride Posted:

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Don't feel too bad... the same thing happened to me and I ended up planning AND paying for my own bachelorette party!

Yours sounds wonderful!!! That is so sweet of your parents!!!! Have a great time!!
Bunnymonkey Posted:

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How wonderful! You are so blessed to have parents like those!

I agree on the 'last night as a single woman' thing. I am going to cry with happiness when I get my batch party wish - a day at the spa and out to a 5 star dinner with the girls. now, thats a parrty to me!

What show are you seeing?
hbradio Posted:

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Oh that sounds great!!!! I would rather do something like that too!!!

wc0143 Posted:

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YAY for the update!!!

That sounds wonderful!!!!!
Sweetness Posted:

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Posted by Bunnymonkey

What show are you seeing?



NOt sure quite yet...

Thanks again everyone! I really love this site!!
ckgmwedding Posted:

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I absolutely loved your update! I think your parents sound like two of the most wonderful people in the world and the best ones to spend time with before the big day. A lot of bacholorette parties I have been to have been overrated anyway-including the one where I ended up in the hospital at the end of the night!
sandj100304 Posted:

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That sounds like an incredible night and sounds like you have incredible parents. You are going to have so much fun. What a great way to spend your last 'single' weekend. I would have loved that!

lvdolphins Posted:

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I am so happy for your update!! Your parents sound awesome!! have a great time and enjoy!
Rainmama Posted:

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WOW! Sounds like an amazing weekend!
Jan05Bride Posted:

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That sounds like it is going to be a lot of fun!

Carnegie Cigar Bar is on 56th Street between 7th & 6th ... I think they even have a Frank Sinatra singer at night.
troutster Posted:

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I would be so hurt if my friends did that to me. Luckly your parents were so sweet and thoughful and planned such a wonderful day for you!
I worry about certain bms I have. One is very self centered and I know she won't help with much of anything to do with the wedding. Therefore it will all be on my sister's shoulders.... she says she doesn't mind, but I still feel bad.

I'm glad things worked out for you :)

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