Since my MOH dropped out, who wasn't doing much of anything anyways, no one took the iniative to pick up the slack. I was going to plan my own bachelorette party, but now no one wants to do anything.
Anyways, I am hurt by their lack of care for my feelings. Now I am not doing anything, while FH goes out with his friends.
I don't know if I should inform them of my disappointment or just let it go...
In need of hugs and support
Michele
Update:
Thank you GIRLS for all your support, hugs and even wanted to take me out on Oct 2nd! I would so be down for a GTG.
My parents are the sweetest, most thoughtful, loving, most awesome people. They got wind of the situation and my dad planned a whole weekend thing for me! I always wanted to eat at one of the restaurants at the Plaza hotel. As little girl, even up to last Christmas, we go into the city to see the tree, walk around while freezing our butts off. I would always stop at the Plaza in sheer amazement of the beauty, architecture and grace of that hotel and pictured myself walking around like one the rich elites. It was something I always wanted to do, but never thought I could. Some people may think this is corny, and that why am i spending time with my parents a week before my wedding-----------------
WELL, my father made reservations at the the OAK room, the steakhouse that just let allowed women in the mid 70s, the Vanderbilts, among other stars, like Hemingway and Fitzgerald used to go there. He even booked a room!! He is trying to get play tickets (I love to see Plays) or find an awesome lounge where we can sip wine and smoke cigars. After breakfast at the Plaza, we are taking a limo back to LI.
I cannot believe they surprised me with this, I am floored. At least someone in my family wants to do something nice for me!!
I truly believe that there is no such thing 'as a last night out as a single woman' cause i haven't been single in 6 years. I see this night as a relaxing unwinding, out of this world never thought it would happen, lovely evening spent with the 2 people who gave me life, taught me to be independent, strong, and to not let life knock me down. I am honored to be spending that time with my parents and enjoying my last weekend with their last name.
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