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I am hurt..UPDATED 9/14-kinda long

Sweetness Posted:

I am hurt..UPDATED 9/14-kinda long

Since my MOH dropped out, who wasn't doing much of anything anyways, no one took the iniative to pick up the slack. I was going to plan my own bachelorette party, but now no one wants to do anything.
Anyways, I am hurt by their lack of care for my feelings. Now I am not doing anything, while FH goes out with his friends.

I don't know if I should inform them of my disappointment or just let it go...

In need of hugs and support
Michele

Update:
Thank you GIRLS for all your support, hugs and even wanted to take me out on Oct 2nd! I would so be down for a GTG.
My parents are the sweetest, most thoughtful, loving, most awesome people. They got wind of the situation and my dad planned a whole weekend thing for me! I always wanted to eat at one of the restaurants at the Plaza hotel. As little girl, even up to last Christmas, we go into the city to see the tree, walk around while freezing our butts off. I would always stop at the Plaza in sheer amazement of the beauty, architecture and grace of that hotel and pictured myself walking around like one the rich elites. It was something I always wanted to do, but never thought I could. Some people may think this is corny, and that why am i spending time with my parents a week before my wedding-----------------
WELL, my father made reservations at the the OAK room, the steakhouse that just let allowed women in the mid 70s, the Vanderbilts, among other stars, like Hemingway and Fitzgerald used to go there. He even booked a room!! He is trying to get play tickets (I love to see Plays) or find an awesome lounge where we can sip wine and smoke cigars. After breakfast at the Plaza, we are taking a limo back to LI.
I cannot believe they surprised me with this, I am floored. At least someone in my family wants to do something nice for me!!
I truly believe that there is no such thing 'as a last night out as a single woman' cause i haven't been single in 6 years. I see this night as a relaxing unwinding, out of this world never thought it would happen, lovely evening spent with the 2 people who gave me life, taught me to be independent, strong, and to not let life knock me down. I am honored to be spending that time with my parents and enjoying my last weekend with their last name.
MRSJLK Posted:

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so sorry
Borricuamorena0905 Posted:

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Let it go...
When I turned 30, I threw my own party... DOn't wait for anyone..

get some of ur other friends, and go to a strip spot with some $$$$$ and get ur drink on !
Make urself happy! Hell with everyone else!
divabride Posted:

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Im so sorry hon. Im keeping my fingers crossed that they are going to suprise you.
bugginvw2 Posted:

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ARE YOU SERIOUS!! YOU POOR THING, I THINK YOU SHOULD DEF TREAT YOUR SELF FOR A NICE WEEKEND OF MASSAGES MANICURES AND PEDICURES. I AM SURE IF NO ONE IN YOUR BRIDAL PARTY WANTS TO GO YOU CAN ALWAYS ASK SOME OF LIW GIRLS. I AM SURE WE CAN GET A NICE GROUP OF GIRLS TO ALL GO OUT AND HAVE A GOOD TIME. DONT WORRY SOMETHING WILL COME UP.
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Sweetness Posted:

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It just hurts cause there is no excuse for this. Let me tell you I have done everything by myself! My mom has been a godsend and doing things on LI that I cannot in CT.

25 more days!! is what I tell myself, 26 til i am on the beach in ARUBA!!
May05Bride Posted:

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Sorry..
JacnRob729 Posted:

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how terrible.
prindia Posted:

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lot's of hugs
tourist Posted:

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What day is your FH going out? My Fh was joking the other day & said all the October girls should just have 1 big bachelorette party!

I told him that wasn't such a bad idea, but it would be tough to get everyone's schedules together.

Mine was Saturday, and honestly was quite dull.

Maybe we should try& schedule a group one.
CubanBride Posted:

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That does suck. Sorry!
neesiepie Posted:

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We'll go out with ya! We should have a monthly LIW bachelorette party for the girls who are gettingmarried in that month! (could get expensive, though)

FLaCaTaCa Posted:

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Donna&Joe708 Posted:

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Sorry to hear that....
girlygrl33 Posted:

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Im so sorry to hear that, i wonder sometimes if thats going to happen to me , my MOH one of them is out of state and the other my mom- she isnt in the loop, but Im hopeing my stepsister and best friend who are BM take over if not Im going to take over.

We should do a LIW bachelorette party !! Im def in!!!!
Sweetness Posted:

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Posted by neesiepie

We'll go out with ya! We should have a monthly LIW bachelorette party for the girls who are gettingmarried in that month! (could get expensive, though)

What day is your FH going out? My Fh was joking the other day & said all the October girls should just have 1 big bachelorette party!





He is going out Oct 2nd! You guys are too kind! This wedding experience was suppose to be the best year and has been nothing but heartache and aggravation. I tell ya, If I could do it all over again....things would be very different.
RobNette Posted:

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I say, call those people up and start saying: Hi, ok I need you to do this specific thing.
Most people ARE ALL TALK: you have to be very specific about what you need...and then hand it to them. They have no excuse then. It sucks, but sometimes you have to take charge, even when you don't think you should have to.
I had some similar problems myself...everyone had an opinion..but then I did all the work! No more...I said: you have to earn an opinion...so unless you do the looking; you wear the dress i tell you to...and so on.

Tuff love.
And btw..I TOTALLY AGREE with the LIW Batchlorette party gathering idea!!!!!

JZNCK Posted:

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They shouldn't be invited to the wedding then.. That is BS!!!!!!!! they are supposed to make this the most memorable and enjoyable part of your day!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wish I lived in NY because I would get all of us.. LIW gals together and PARTY!!!! You deserve it.. Even if it's like you and 2 other people, you can have A LOT of fun..

marc_rai Posted:

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Posted by JZNCK

That is BS!!!!!!!! they are supposed to make this the most memorable and enjoyable part of your day!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wish I lived in NY because I would get all of us.. LIW gals together and PARTY!!!! You deserve it.. Even if it's like you and 2 other people, you can have A LOT of fun..



If I was in NYC we would party together. But, I think you should let them know that you are hurt. Who knows...maybe a surprise is on the way.

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