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I am hurt..UPDATED 9/14-kinda long

Original post by Sweetness

Since my MOH dropped out, who wasn't doing much of anything anyways, no one took the iniative to pick up the slack. I was going to plan my own bachelorette party, but now no one wants to do anything.
Anyways, I am hurt by their lack of care for my feelings. Now I am not doing anything, while FH goes out with his friends.

I don't know if I should inform them of my disappointment or just let it go...

In need of hugs and support
Michele

Update:
Thank you GIRLS for all your support, hugs and even wanted to take me out on Oct 2nd! I would so be down for a GTG.
My parents are the sweetest, most thoughtful, loving, most awesome people. They got wind of the situation and my dad planned a whole weekend thing for me! I always wanted to eat at one of the restaurants at the Plaza hotel. As little girl, even up to last Christmas, we go into the city to see the tree, walk around while freezing our butts off. I would always stop at the Plaza in sheer amazement of the beauty, architecture and grace of that hotel and pictured myself walking around like one the rich elites. It was something I always wanted to do, but never thought I could. Some people may think this is corny, and that why am i spending time with my parents a week before my wedding-----------------
WELL, my father made reservations at the the OAK room, the steakhouse that just let allowed women in the mid 70s, the Vanderbilts, among other stars, like Hemingway and Fitzgerald used to go there. He even booked a room!! He is trying to get play tickets (I love to see Plays) or find an awesome lounge where we can sip wine and smoke cigars. After breakfast at the Plaza, we are taking a limo back to LI.
I cannot believe they surprised me with this, I am floored. At least someone in my family wants to do something nice for me!!
I truly believe that there is no such thing 'as a last night out as a single woman' cause i haven't been single in 6 years. I see this night as a relaxing unwinding, out of this world never thought it would happen, lovely evening spent with the 2 people who gave me life, taught me to be independent, strong, and to not let life knock me down. I am honored to be spending that time with my parents and enjoying my last weekend with their last name.
marymoon Posted:

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That's so great. Your parents are amazing! Have fun!
lullabella Posted:

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That sounds awesome! You are going to have a great time. You are lucky to have such loving parents!
gina674 Posted:

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I am very happy for you, and I hope you have a wonderful time!!!!!
May05Bride Posted:

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Wow, that sounds amazing!!!!!

I would love it if someone would do it for me!

Enjoy and unwind!
nferrandi Posted:

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You are so blessed to have such wonerful parents! You are going to have a great time with them. F^ck your friends, family is what's really important anyway.
eogara Posted:

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Wow, that's wonderful!! Your parents sounds like absolutely amazing people!!! Enjoy it!

brooklynbridezilla Posted:

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Awwww!!!! i'm so glad everything worked out for yu. Your parents rock!
Maribelle7777 Posted:

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The Plaza! Awesome! I am dying to go there too and so is DH maybe we'll do it for our 1 yr anniversary! Have a great time!!!!


Your parents are wonderful people!!!!
Dooodles Posted:

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Sorry you were hurt with your friends reactions. But your parents sound like wonderful people who love you so so much! I'm so happy you are able to spend a wonderful evening with them before you get married
JacnRob729 Posted:

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That sounds soooo great......have fun and cherish the memories!

endlessluv429 Posted:

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I'm sorry your bm's let you down, but your parents are AMAZING. Sounds like something I would want to do with my parents as well, so I totally know where you are coming from! With all the crap going on in this world, it's such a blessing to have two parents who love and care for you and always have your best interests @ heart! HAVE A GREAT TIME!! Please tell us all about it!!
Sweetness Posted:

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Posted by endlessluv429

I'm sorry your bm's let you down, but your parents are AMAZING. Sounds like something I would want to do with my parents as well, so I totally know where you are coming from! With all the crap going on in this world, it's such a blessing to have two parents who love and care for you and always have your best interests @ heart! HAVE A GREAT TIME!! Please tell us all about it!!



Thank you! I really am soo glad I found this site! You girls are great!

Bless all you girls who have big bridal parties, I don't know how you do it!!
snowprincess805 Posted:

Re: I am hurt..UPDATED 9/14-kinda long

your mini trip your parents sounds so sweet - friends will always be around - and i find the hardest thing as i get closer tot he wedding is spending less and less time with my family - i am super close with my mom - she is like my sister because i don't have any

i think spending your last weekend with parents is more important - it saying bye to them too - there is an adjustment as you get married
Wintersbride Posted:

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I am so glad it worked out for you. I don't think it's corny...I think it's nice, and I share your views. I have not considered myself single in 6 years, why start the week before my wedding?

Your parents are very special for doing this for you. Although, I do think your BM's should be ashamed of themselves. Have a wonderful time!!! I hope the night is all you imagened and more!
1017Bride Posted:

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sorry! It is nice to hear how wonderful your parents are. to them!
suven Posted:

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OMG! Reading what your parents did made me want to cry! That is so amazing.

(My 'bachelorette party' turned out to be a weekend away with my bestfriend- just me and her!)
janwinterbridejoy Posted:

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that is the sweetest thing i have ever heard. you have amazing parents. i think your getting married is one of the true signs that your becoming a true adult and what better way to segway into that by spending some time with the two people that made you the woman you are. have a great time and post some pics

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