I am not only losing my middle name....

Original post by anszusterman

Feb 10, 2011 12:17 AM

FMIL wants us to know take off the last names (like it says my parents and his parents full names request the presence at the marriage of their children Jeffrey and Angela). AND she wants the '&' sign between our names. The wedding is a formal affair....why can't she just leave it alone!!!!

anszusterman Posted: Feb 14, 2011 12:01 PM

Re: I am not only losing my middle name....

Posted by anszusterman

Posted by bubblichik

What happened with this?

she got shut down

Invites stay as is (i.e. the way I want them)

Strike that....FH and I are fighting over gchat right now....he says I am being uncompromising.....I have compromised on almost every single vendor!!!! I am soooo mad right, I am tearing up....

justnicethings Posted: Feb 14, 2011 12:18 PM

Re: I am not only losing my middle name....

Nobody but FH and I are making any real decisions. I won't be showing FMIL anything! I show my mother, but she knows to stay quiet even if she dislikes something. This is your wedding. I hope you take this experience as a lesson to just not include her in every single detail.