I am really not a prude but.....

Original post by soontobecruz

Mar 19, 2009 01:06 PM

So I don't mean to preach and like I said to each their own but...

These boards are PUBLIC people! I mean what anyone writes online can follow them for a long time. I know myspace and facebook can be much more damaging than LIW but still. People lurk these boards.

Just yesterday there was a thread about vendors lurking, and how we are uncomfortable with it and feel it is wrong. I agree with that.

But are you comfotable kowing that a vendor you might visit and possibly hire will know that you (I am sure they can identify us by our pics) like it from behind and enjoy swallowing? They read these, it isn't only brides (and grooms) unfortunatly, it is strangers and moms....

Like I said I am not a prude many of the Sextions of the Day I have read on the '09 board have been nothing but funny (different names for a p*nis, or who would you rather do... innocent questions)... I just think some things are better left offline.

I am no prude and what everyone does is their own business, just remember before you post and/or reply we (meaning the 2010 brides/grooms) are not the only ones reading these

ok I'm getting off my soapbox now....

rocketsummer17 Posted: Mar 19, 2009 04:06 PM

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Posted by T E R I

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i kid, i kid

I know I know.... But if you do it again I can text Darryn with an important secret that I've been holding onto!!!

Don't do it, there is only 2 days left

SECRET PARTY TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOOHOOOOOOO

SummerGroom10 Posted: Mar 19, 2009 04:06 PM

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Posted by T E R I

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i kid, i kid

I know I know.... But if you do it again I can text Darryn with an important secret that I've been holding onto!!!

Don't do it, there is only 2 days left

I would never... You should know that....

SummerGroom10 Posted: Mar 19, 2009 04:07 PM

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I think your missing some spectacular people in that picture though...very upsetting...lol

Who are the spectacular people?? I didnt know that word was used.... and if it includes you its because you left too early!!!! LoLoL...

That word is being used now!! I left too early and too sober for a saturday night...I think it needs to happen again this Saturday night, expect I get to be the Drunky McPukey pants...

That sounds good to me, although I don't think I'll be getting as drunk as last weekend.... I was hurting on Sunday....

T E R I Posted: Mar 19, 2009 04:07 PM

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That word is being used now!! I left too early and too sober for a saturday night...I think it needs to happen again this Saturday night, expect I get to be the Drunky McPukey pants...

Yes, everyone do lots of drinking

rocketsummer17 Posted: Mar 19, 2009 04:08 PM

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Posted by SummerGroom10

I think your missing some spectacular people in that picture though...very upsetting...lol

Who are the spectacular people?? I didnt know that word was used.... and if it includes you its because you left too early!!!! LoLoL...

That word is being used now!! I left too early and too sober for a saturday night...I think it needs to happen again this Saturday night, expect I get to be the Drunky McPukey pants...

That sounds good to me, although I don't think I'll be getting as drunk as last weekend.... I was hurting on Sunday....

Come on Brian...Take one for the team...drink your face off!!

lori7570 Posted: Mar 19, 2009 04:11 PM

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Did someone say Drunky McPukey pants??

I have a pair of those!!!

rocketsummer17 Posted: Mar 19, 2009 04:12 PM

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Posted by lori7570

Did someone say Drunky McPukey pants??

I have a pair of those!!!

perhaps

Kimbalina Posted: Mar 19, 2009 04:13 PM

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FYI.... now that the NW like you... I think we are all crashing your weddings too.

CloudNine Posted: Mar 19, 2009 04:16 PM

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Posted by Kimbalina

FYI.... now that the NW like you... I think we are all crashing your weddings too.

the more the merrier!

Kimbalina Posted: Mar 19, 2009 04:19 PM

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Posted by CloudNine

Posted by Kimbalina

FYI.... now that the NW like you... I think we are all crashing your weddings too.

the more the merrier!

Although we take raunch pics... like this one:

CloudNine Posted: Mar 19, 2009 04:23 PM

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well in honor of the wedding day you may have to get a little raunchier

DnT2010 Posted: Mar 19, 2009 04:25 PM

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heyyy my Tom isnt gay!!!

Kimbalina Posted: Mar 19, 2009 04:27 PM

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Posted by CloudNine

well in honor of the wedding day you may have to get a little raunchier

For you..... Sure!!!

Alexandra17 Posted: Mar 19, 2009 05:18 PM

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Posted by Kimbalina

Posted by CloudNine

well in honor of the wedding day you may have to get a little raunchier

For you..... Sure!!!

you can come to mine..at least the CH ..if u all dare!

rocketsummer17 Posted: Mar 19, 2009 05:25 PM

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Posted by DnT2010

heyyy my Tom isnt gay!!!

hey look!! She exists!!

marrymybestfriend Posted: Mar 19, 2009 06:24 PM

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Posted by SummerGroom10

Posted by CloudNine

Posted by SummerGroom10

I hate when I see this pic of John cheating on me!!! With a groom not even LIW for goodness sake!!!

sorry brian..that is just something that 'fabulous' people do. Magnificent people would NEVER!

You know when youre right youre right.... Someone as magnificent as us would never do anything like this... Dare I say what I'm seeing in this pic is not very fabulous???!!!

alright Brian.. .the truth is... i was breaking up with Tom in that picture, and I was telling him about my new found, Fabulous, Magnificent love.

but thats cool... you just go ahead and assume things. typical!!

SummerGroom10 Posted: Mar 19, 2009 06:53 PM

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You know when youre right youre right.... Someone as magnificent as us would never do anything like this... Dare I say what I'm seeing in this pic is not very fabulous???!!!

Typical man just assuming everything huh???

emc282rjm Posted: Mar 19, 2009 07:29 PM

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An interesting fact:

I was a Latin major in college, and in Latin there are different words for pitcher and catcher.

That's my addition to this conversation :)

Kimbalina Posted: Mar 20, 2009 08:35 AM

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Posted by Alexandra17

Posted by Kimbalina

Posted by CloudNine

well in honor of the wedding day you may have to get a little raunchier

For you..... Sure!!!

you can come to mine..at least the CH ..if u all dare!

I will get your party started!!!

laurenandmike618 Posted: Mar 20, 2009 09:59 AM

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Okay I know that this thread has gone wayyyyy off topic, and I don't mean to poor fuel on the fire, but I wasn't on here all day yesterday and I need to say that I am shocked at what happened on this thread. My cousin Shauna is the most fun and the least controversial person EVER. She is a fun party girl, she is by NO MEANS a prude, and she never lectures anyone. She was simply trying to remind everyone that ANYONE can see these forums. For example, when I google-image the Garden City Hotel, my profile picture comes up on the second page of the search, and if you click on it, you are now viewing my profile in LIW. You have NO IDEA what I discuss with my friends, and you have no idea what Shauna discusses with her cousins and friends... but we both just wouldn't post it on a forum that allows the world to see what we do with our FHs. Shauna was just having everyone's back - reminding you all that anyone in the world can see these. If you don't care about that, that is totally and completely FINE. No one is judging. But some people often think of this as a somewhat private forum, but in all honesty, anyone in the world can see what we write and they don't need a password either. Shauna is a sweet girl and she doesn't want to see anyone regretting what they write. You should have APPRECIATED that, not started a war with her.

To be honest with you, it has been my experience that those who have to say they are kinky or raunchy are usually the ones who are not as kinky and raunchy as those who keep it to themselves. So to say Shauna is a prude or that she 'shouldn't read posts that are offensive to her' is retarded. She wasn't offended. She was warning people that anyone in the world can read these, so just make sure you are comfortable first before you post it. and if you have no problem with your father knowing everything that goes on with your FH, that is totally fine, too!!! We don't care at all!!!! In fact, it is entertaining to read the answers. But I just know that some people may post on here and forget how public it really is.

And no, Shauna did not message me and ask me to defend her. In fact, she still has no idea I just read this. I happened to stumble upon it and felt the need to express my opinion.

And I am seriously annoyed that someone started another 'sextion' on this thread, and then said 'oh wait - I can't write that because then I would be deemed immature!!!' Seriously??? What is this, middle school?? Don't mock my cousin just because she was being sweet and reminding everyone that anyone can read these posts. Jesus.