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I am so annoyed at FBIL. Vent

shelzyp Posted:

I am so annoyed at FBIL. Vent

He is the Best man, and he is planning the Bachelor party, but he lives in North carolina. I have given him my brother's # and another GM's number 4 times, and he has yet to call them. He has only spoke to one GM, which IMO is not capable of planning a good Bachelor party, becasue he would have no clue what a good one would be, they would probably go to a dive bar, and it would be very blah.

I have aksed him to call these people, and he hasn't.

The best part when his wife asked me about who should Brian invite, Brian gets all annoyed syaing that we have no right to talk about it, and it is none of our concern.

I just want to make sure he has a great Bachelor party, becasue I know my friends will plan a great one for me.


UGGGGGHHHHHH
HeatherandNick Posted:

Re: I am so annoyed at FBIL. Vent

why don't you give the other GM his number and have them initialize the first call then he can follow their lead without realizing it

shelzyp Posted:

Re: I am so annoyed at FBIL. Vent

I did that today, I told my brother to call him, so hopefully he will call the Best Man.

alina Posted:

Re: I am so annoyed at FBIL. Vent

Aaah, you still have plenty of time.

I was in your shoes about a month ago and flipping out...

So I emailed one of the groomsmen, who is usually the one to initiate making the weekend plans and said 'Since you're so good at planning out weekend activities, I thought to send you a friendly reminder that FI's bachelor party needs to be planned. I would really prefer it not to be any closer than 2 weeks before the big day, and on a satuday, so that he can sleep all day sunday'. this got them moving a little bit, but they were still deciding the same day what time and where they were going to meet!!!
shelzyp Posted:

Re: I am so annoyed at FBIL. Vent

I know there is plenty of time, but 2 of the GM are out of state, so they need to make their travel plans now, since they will probably doing it the wekend before, and we have a wedding that weekend also.

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